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writes:me and this guy have been talking everyday, all daywe kiss, hold hands, hes told me he really likes me, plus weve been making long term plans, and like 3 days ago he told me that he had gotten drunk[he never drinks and neither do i] and he kept telling me that he feels bad cuz he doesnt want me to think hes a bad guyso should i ask him out, officially?if yes, then should i just ask him if he likes me likes me, then when he replies should i say do you want to officially be my boyfriend?should i say that?or should i wait and see if he makes a move?some people are telling me to wait, but..he kissed me firsthe asked me to go on a date with himhe held me hand firstso i was thinking maybe i could do something by asking him out?what do you think?
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reader, Wreck +, writes (21 June 2009):
 I agree with the anonymous guy down there... just ask him whats he looking for you know and if he says hes looking for something serious then just let him know the same and that your not looking for a bad guy and blah blah... but DONT ask him out , because you have to make the guy want you , you cant make easy for any guy or they get bored. Dont play to HARD though you know give him hints once in a while....
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Yes, ask him out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Take the chance. If you like hime, then deffinatly ask. Only if thats what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): I say ask him what he's looking for at present. Something like "out of curiosity, what exactly is it that you're looking for by dating me?" that way, if he says he doesn't want anything serious, you have the option of agreeing with him or just shrugging it off, but if he wants a relationship and you do too, you have the option of telling him. My best advice though, is make sure he's someone you want to be with right now. Sometimes, just having someone to cuddle can be more fulfilling that engaging in a relationship with someone. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): I say ask him what he's looking for at present. Something like "out of curiosity, what exactly is it that you're looking for by dating me?" that way, if he says he doesn't want anything serious, you have the option of agreeing with him or just shrugging it off, but if he wants a relationship and you do too, you have the option of telling him. My best advice though, is make sure he's someone you want to be with right now. Sometimes, just having someone to cuddle can be more fulfilling that engaging in a relationship with someone. Good luck!
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