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He left me for my friend, so why does he care that I have a new boyfriend?

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Question - (21 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *oxic_oreos writes:

okay so, my ex left me for my friend.

we still talk.

he messaged me on myspace and he was all cool and stuff but then he saw that my headline says i love you (my bf's name) and he said who is that? i said my bf. then he said b***** i will kick your a** and i thought it was my ex friend oon his account so i said be quiet (her name) and he said why did you say her name? are you jelous. you see this is why we can never be, your so jelous and then he started dissing me.

I'm very confused.

why did he say THIS IS WHY WE CAN NEVER BE.

he calls me very now and then and askd if im with someone. i say yeah but i never give a lot of info to him. but if he left me for her why would he care?

im very very lost.

so my question is. do you think he still has feeling or hatred towards me, whats wrong with him?

-thanksz-

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A female reader, amber1771 United States +, writes (22 June 2009):

This sounds like my bf! okay so he left my bff for me. and when we first started dating he kept her around "oh well all be just GREAT friends"..pff ya right! The reason my bf kept my friend around was because I wasn't giving it up and she was so he cheated on me within like a month. We worked it out now and are good, I'm not saying your like my friend, maybe he just wants you both, when he doesn't have her anymore he thinks he could go back to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009):

I think he still has feelings.But your with someone better now who cares about him.remember hes the one that went off on you not the other way around besides you got yourself another bf now consentrate on him not this other guy.

hope this helps

jenny

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A male reader, lubedude United States +, writes (21 June 2009):

lubedude agony auntI know from experience that he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wasn't sure if he had someone who cared so much now that he knows he's pissed!

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A female reader, callie.bubz United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2009):

callie.bubz agony aunti can't really answer this for you. you need to talk to him face to face or something and just have it out with him and then you no for sure. But are ou sure you still dont have feelings for him, because if you didnt why is this bugging you so much?

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