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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My fear of rejection makes me too shy. I can never make a move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hey all. I have a situation, and being the hopeless romantic I am I need advice. Ive recently met a guy I really like. It takes alot in a man to make me like him so quick and so much but I really do. Trouble is, when I have feelings for a m...

Is she open to the possibility of us being together? I would risk the friendship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Basically the story is that I'm a guy, and I've fallen in love with one of my best friend who is a girl. It's been a long time in the making, and recently it's become overwhelming. It's not just a crush, it's not just attraction, it's the real ...

How can I stop believing he is my one true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I've known a guy since we were 11 - we were classmates - and we are now almost 20. I gave him my first kiss. He liked me in 7th grade but it was a kids' thing and we dated for 3 days, however, I know I hurt him. I always felt attracted but I ...

How do I help him and stay friends without hurting my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - ok so where to begin, i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years now. We began dating when i was in high school, but at that time i was not really allowed to date so i would only see once a week. It was like that for about a year. ...

Would this be considered mentally cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I've been with an ex co-worker of mine for three months now. I do care about him but I'm pretty sure I don't love him... Anyhow, about two months ago, my ex from when I was 15 to 19 somehow got a hold of my new email address and, well, he emailed...

Do I miss my ex or just the routine and familiarity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I was with someone for 9months when he started pressuaring me for sex, I panicked and didn't know what to do. I had been friends with this other boy for years and we got on really well, at about the same time I found out he liked me, he made me ...

Help! I'm falling for Older People!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - i was wondering if anybody could help me? i seem to fall for people alot older than me, no im not talking 3 years or 5, im saying 10,15,20. im 17 myself and i consider myself to be mature for my age, i like adult conversation over my peers i have ...

We have amazing chemistry so why does he disappear on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Me and this guy have been talking for a little over a month now. We meet through mutual friends and hit it off right away. At first he initiated everything such as texting me asking me to come over and being pretty talkative. Then about two weeks ...

Update: Thanks for all the advice and she said "yes" to my proposal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - I just wanted to update what I wrote in here last week. I don't know how many of you will recognize this, but I'm the guy who wanted to propose to his girlfriend "Harry Potter-style". I took her to the HP Expo in Chicago Tuesday night and right ...

She blew me off twice do I call her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - dear cupid, im in need of advice or some help here. i was talking to this girl whom iv begun to develop feelings for. here is a little background. she was 3 months out of a bad relationship with someone shed been seeing for about 3 years. and i was ...

He's been seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. When I started the relationship I knew that he had a girlfriend but he said that he was going to split up with her which he did. I found it in October that he was seeing her again. ...

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...

Was I right to end things with my boyfriend? And what should I do about my 'new' boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I was going out with this guy ('dale') for over a year, but like every relationship we had out ups and downs, but the best thing was is that, not only was he my boyfriend he was my bestfriend too, we got along perfectly, i felt so comfortable around ...

What do men do when they realise their game doesn't work with you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - What do men do when they realize their game doesn't work with you? In other words, you can pretty much see right through their bull. Do they try harder, freak out, or become tame? ...

Mixed signals from my guy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - this guy is sending mixed signals. he says we are friends but he said that i am hot and for a while he was begging me for normal pics of myself to look at, he says he has a big secret he wants to tell me that i would like but he won't tell me yet, ...

The first date was great but he hasn't called to me ask me out for a second, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I work at a rehersal studio and this guy comes un once a week... For a few months he would come and buy a soda and flirt with me... One night he started asking me questions about myself and I ended up giving him my business card... He had it for ...

My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and it makes me feel insecure about my own body!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - i just turned 17 and im a cup A :( i have a boyfriend. he is my first ever boyfriend and i am also his first. last month i told him my bra size. he told me it's fine and he doesnt mind small breasts as long as there's something to touch. lat...

I compare all the guys I date to a man who I cant even be with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I seem to be comparing the guys I date to one guy who is very special to me, but for various reasons I can't be with. He's a great guy and we stay in close email contact and sometimes meet up. To me he is perfect (apart from being over 1000 km away ...

Should I get in touch with my ex even though I said I never wanted to hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Should i write to my ex fling even after I told him I dont want to hear from him again? I used to date a guy for a couple months 5 months ago, we were perfect together and i was very happy but we were never official so i cut off all contact with...

Why did he put in so much effort for the first 3 months, only to now act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - alright guys i am confused. so this is going to be long. please give me some opinions though. so i have been sorta kinda been with this guy for 5 months so i met this guy who works at the airport in my hometown, when i had a really long layo...

Plus size woman finding it hard to feel comfortable with my new man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I am a plus size women and i am finding it very hard to find a man that loves me the way i am and wants me for more than sex. Anyhow i have met a guy and he likes me alot and now im very insecure of my body in front of him. Please ...

We are only dating and never have serious moments together, but I know I should tell him about my mother passing away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He's attractive, very funny, and he has made me happy. I love being around him and the other night when he was very drunk he asked me why I liked him and that he wanted to start treating me like a ...

Worried about my new life in Oz....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hi - I am due to move out to Oz to be with my boyfriend (he's 33 I'm 37) soon but he is cricket obsessed. I know he has always been really into playing it and there is no way I would get in the way of that in essence (he played since an early age ...

Did he take advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the ...

Taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - My GF of 3.5 years recently broke up with me. She was hurt that she didn't feel I loved her anymore and that I no longer made her feel special. I felt the same way, I feared she no longer loved me which caused me to pull back and stop making her ...

Why is he letting our friends control his decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - About the 22nd of June, my boyfriend left with his family to go to Flordia to visit some other family. I was a little worried because I know that two of his exs live there and the one I despise lives closest to where he was staying. When he got ...

I really want to make things work but he wont make any effort!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - ive been in a relationship for over 4yrs. with my boyfriend and we have one kid together. we dont live together and i feel like he has no responsibilities to me or my daughter. i go to school and work yet he can't even go back for his GED or find a ...

Tricks for flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (?) - Now im a confident person around guys and talking to guys is easy. But i feel like i need some new tricks to when a new guy over.Also trying to get over my ex and i think getting some tricks on flirting can relly help me get over him =] so does a...

I'm so lost ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - my BEST friend, we'll call him tyler. we've had off and on feelings for each other since fifth grade. well last year he got a new girlfriend, while my feelings were off. and she really changed him. she ended up not allowing us to talk..and so the ...

Should I wait, or should I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - this guy i started seeing like a weeek before summer has gotten a job and he plays baseball we were perfect for the first few weeks of summer but hes stopped calling/texting me if i wanna talk to him i have to call and text but hes usually wo...

If you guys don't know each other, how can you tell if he's interested or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hmm I was just wondering cause of this particular incident. i'm at university and there's this guy in my faculty that i used to see around once in a very long while. Anyway we are both in the same camps this time around and well, I noticed him ...

I'm worried my friend will scare this guy off and I happen to like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - My friend saw me get hurt and messed around in a bad relationship which I finally ended about 9 months ago. I'm completely over it - it really should have ended almost 2 years ago. But my friend seems to think I need another year or 2 of being ...

I've been pushed aside AGAIN! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for five years. It has been really hard, because I have been put to the side so many times. I have been stood up, and I expressed how I felt. He promised to change, showed up at work with roses, and told me he loved ...