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Dating: Help and advice

I want a boyfriend... I seriously do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - hey cupid, i'm 14 years old and i have had one boyfriend and he was my 3 year crush. we went out for 3 months and we broke up. blah blah blah but now its been about 5 months since we broke up.. i see everyone with a boyfriend and ...

I am going CRAZY. I don't want to just let go and regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is probably a common question but I haven't been able to pinpoint a situation that I feel I can completely relate to. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now (I'm 19 and she's 24). The first half of our relation...

I've never made out before and I'm really nervous for my first time... any way to practise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - ive never made out before and im really nervous for my first time...does anyone know a good way for me to practice?...

Are his feelings still true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... ...

I really hope I'm not pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I'm really worried, and hope i am not pregnant! I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we are regularly sexually active. I am not on he pill, but he uses condoms every time. Last month when i was due on, i came on, the day expected, but st...

Given up friendship for love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - I am 21 years old and im dating my best friend's ex girlfriend. I knew for a long time that my best friend was cheating on her but never knew enough. Fortunately i fell in love with her but was in a dilemma of keeping my friend's trust or saving ...

Friends' gossip ruined our chances to be together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Well I am a 17 year old girl and in March of 2009 I Met this wonderful guy. Everything was great. He told me that he wanted me to be the mother of his children and he liked me more than any other girl. Then he started listening to his friends who ...

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with som...

What does his eagerness to keep contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

I love my boyfriend, but I have strong feelings for another girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - MY name is Alice and I am 18. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and its going okay, I do love him despite his struggle to stop taking ketamine on a regular basis. The drugs do get in the way because he has become quite selfish,...

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there ...

I keep dreaming of my boyfriend cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The seco...

I need opinions here, I don't know what's going on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just ...

I don't want to lie to my parents but an older man asked me out..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before...

I'd like to hear from lads who've actually received this kind of sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I'm a gay lad and my new boyfriend has offered to give me anal intercouse. I've never experienced it but would like see what it feels like. I've read all about it and know it can be extremely pleasurable. My boyfriend says he can give me a ...

He's moving away, and I'm worried he might fall for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my perfect match for about 4 and a half years now. Im totally head over heels in love with the guy and i could imagine a future with him no problem. The only thing stopping me is Fate ;His parents have decided to move and live in...

Am I justified in feeling suspicious and what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I just want to know if what I am feeling is normal and justified or if I'm over-reacting. Here's the story. I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 10 years and we are engaged but have never got married. We met at Uni and as f...

She says she's tired and doesn't feel sexy. What does she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might ...

She's going out with a guy she says is The One...but I think I could be her One!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I'm Falling for this girl i know, the problem is she is going out with a guy she says is the one. Should i tell her how im feeling about her? or try to move on? I think i could be her one....

He says he loves me, but he'd like to have sex with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel ...

Sexual fantasies and jealousy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just told me that he has had sexual fantasies about a few girls, two of whom I was already extremely jealous of, but he said they were one time things and for only about thirty seconds. He also told me that he never masturbated and ...

How can you miss someone depending on the circumstances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who i don't get to see very often and who i miss a lot tells me today that he misses me when i'm nice but doesn't miss me when he thinks i'm nasty to him.I miss him all the time how can you miss someone only sometimes depending on the ...

I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked...

He is scared of starting a relationship with me it seems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Ok I am confused. What does it mean when a guy calls you often, let's say 3 to 4 time in a week, tells you a lot about his life plans and secrets but never asks you out. I have known him for almost 2 months now and he makes me feel like we are close ...

I kind of pushed him away, but I really want him to be mine

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for 4 years now. The reason I first started to like him was bc I thought he liked me and I fell so hard and havent stopped liking him since. Im pretty sure he actually did but then I stupidly told him I liked somebody else over ...

My parents won't let me date anyone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - im 17 and my mom and dad wont let me date any guys i have told them that there afrad to let me go well im not there baby gal any moer i need some help big time ...

I think I deserve to be treated much better. Your opinions, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheate...

Is it a bad idea to tell him I've started seeing someone else? I really like this guy, but he had a bad breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I care a lot about a guy I've been seeing. I try not to think about loving him but I know I do. However, he's not over his ex girlfriend - not in an "I still love her" kind of way, but in a "she hurt me so badly and killed my confidence in ...

He's moved to be with me, and he says he loves me but that things just aren't "right"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend in a weird way. Our "at the times" cheated with each other. Him and I ended up bonding over broken hearts. He is my best friend and has always been there for me. He makes me smile and my every day. The only issue is, I lived in ...

Broken...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different ...

I love him, but I miss myself and I want to be happy again, how can I find myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating C for 4 months, everything moved way too fast. He has a lot on his plate right now trying to get his 2 daughters back from CPS and he can't seem to let his baby's mama go, after 9 years. I saw all the warnings and walked into this ...

What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a micro...