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Archived questions from: 30 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he still have something for me or is it because he saw I'm a model?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I used to like this guy a year ago. I could tell he liked me too cuz his body language said a lot. Then I went to a party and hooked up with some guy he never talked to me I guess he was heartbroken.. Then online for months I would write him ...

Her daughter is standing in the way of us taking it to the next level!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Need opinions please. I’m a 47yr old male in great 3.5yr relationship with 50yr woman. The woman lives with her 27yr old daughter and I do not. The daughter smokes pot daily (moms more of a friend than a mom) has dead end job, never has had a car ...

Do I have a good reason to be angry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I hace been talking to a guy for 2 weeks now and he has a gf. I didnt know that for a while but then when i found out i was furious. I know we arent together but he says hes comfortable in this relaionship and doesnt like the girl shes been pushing ...

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she ...

Can a wedding be our first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I have been chatting online and on the telephone with a very nice gentleman--lives in my hometown, which is in another state. I am going to an out of town wedding about halfway between us--will be an overnight. He has offered to drive up to meet me ...

What we did felt like more than "just friends," but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I went on a school trip for 12 days recently. I ended getting to be really close friends with a guy I have fancied for a couple of months. On the night I was slightly tipsy and we ended up cuddled on the sofa but were interupted. Then, on the plan...

All I want is to find a girl and develop a relationship like most normal people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Just looking for some advice. I am 23 years old and i seem to be having a real problem with finding girls. When i was youner i was often described as a "player" and often messed girls around. I then found a girl who was perfect for me. ...

Puzzled over break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Where do i begin. I met this girl on a mates stag do last July in Barcelona. We were both single and not out looking for a relationship. But on that night are eyes met and that was it. Exchanged numbers at end of night with a kiss. Came home and the ...

Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...

Why is life so hard when you've found your soulmate?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - What do I do???? I am 45 and in a relationship with an 18 yearold!!! Where do I begin? Well for nearly a 10 months I have been seeing a woman/girl whos is nearly 27 years my junior!!! at first we knew each other as we live close and saw each other ...

Is being a 'Nice Guy' a bad thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Girls keep calling me a nice guy. Is this a bad thing? Something definitely isn't working because I've never had a real relationship. I never really get close with girls, or talk to them like close friends. I'm "friends" with a lot of girls, but ...

How can I make him commit to marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfrien for 3 years now...he says he wants to het married but has not made a commitment... how do i make him commit to marrieage... i'm almost in my mid 30's and he's 6 years younger than me.... please help!...

If she says I'm perfect for her, why is she still with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, I've met a girl at work, I really like her and she seems to like me too. We sometimes chat to each on MSN to 5/6am some nights and what is shes is nice :) But, there's one problem. She's still currently in a relationship with...

I am not going to continue rewarding abusive behavior! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am a single mother and have an 11 year old daughter who has been used to seeing me being abused by her father, my mother, my sister and my father. This abuse from her father escalated when I tried to have a relationship with a man that I was ...

Ladies: Could she possibly want more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...

Do you agree with what I think could be going on?

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30 July 2009 (F) - Hmmm im abit confused...right im friends with a lad hes a lovely guy and everything me and quite afw of my/our friends thought he liked me because of how he acted, and boy he showed it! I was stupid at the time(this was a year n a half ago) kinda ...

What can I get him that's really special for his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and we both are seventeen years old. However, his birthday is coming up and I'm not sure on what I should get him. Last year I got him an ipod, and he's getting a new cell phone in November so ...

Are men instantly turned off because I'm not young and thin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am 49 years old and single. I feel like there is not much hope for me in finding a guy who would be interested in me. I think age is against me, and the fact that it is harder and harder to stay in shape. I'm not that heavy--but definitely not ...

I think I love him but he annoys me with his silence..... is it fair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - well i met a guy a while ago through a friend and i tend to like him in the same way he liked me too.we decided to build up something concrete in the sense that it supposed to be something strong which can not be destroyed that easy.but this has ...

My girlfriend doesn't like making out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - hey guys im 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and she thinks making out is gross. im not sure if its a maturity thing or she had a bad experience or what, i know for sure she has hooked up before, i don't know how much but i know its hasn't been much...

Should I leave my boyfriend so I can ask another guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - this is gonna be long so be prepared.... I have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 5 months now. i know this sounds really bad but i met him cause he was my ex's best friend and he was on the football team with one of my best friends. I lo...

Should I lose my virginity to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - A girl that Ive been dating for a little while and i are planning to go to a convention out of state and hang out and see what their is to see. we have considered having sex for the first time, usually im really nervous about the idea but this time ...

Am I being silly to worry about her male friend who fancies her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - hi i have recently fallen for someone and have been goin out a few months now and she feels the same way,the majority of her friends are male and i dont have a problem with that but recently she told me one of them really fancies her and has been ...

How do I stop being so clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hello everybody, I have a problem, obviously. Well ever since middle school, I am 22 now, I've had a big issue with being clingy. It has haunted me so much to the point where i get jealous over my girlfriend when i know for sure she is doing not...

I ran into my childhood crush, things were going great, we slept together...and now he seems more distant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I made a big mistake. You would think a woman 44 years old would know better. I ran into a man i had a huge crush on when I was in High School. We bacame friendly while online where we belonged to many of the same sites. Once we exchanged phone ...

It worries me to think that I might have to change just so that a guy will like me. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I've never been in a relationship before. Despite this, I have developed a strong cynicism on the whole thing. It was something that seemed to be so much effort. The nice hair, clothes, and constantly worrying whether or not the person liked you as ...

Never pursued a relationship with someone of my own race.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I realize that people have certain types of significant others that they are attracted to. For me, I tend to gravitate to men of the caucasian race. And even though I find men of my own race attractive I have never found someone of my own race so ...

He has so many beautiful female friends, how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - This doesn't make much sense, but I'm seeing a guy who has a lot of female friends. His best friend is a stunningly beautiful single woman and other attractive women are always so friendly and interested in him. I'm not normally jealous, this is the ...

Am I just not attracted to him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I love him. I have a lot of fun with him and he's my best friend. But I think I'm no longer attracted to him. He is good looking, but I have no drive to do anything with him, even kissing. He has always ...