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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I wait for him to want something real? Or be happy with casual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

14 July 2009 (?) - Okay I will try to make my story as short as possible. I went out with this guy for one year last year. We broke up in December so it's been about 6 months since the break up. He always texted me about twice a month asking me how I'm doing. ...

Who to date? And how to move on from the past?

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14 July 2009 (M) - Hey Everyone, I've got a dilemma. I've started the process of dating again, and while I've played the field, I've also become very close to two special guys. While one lives out of town (about 2 hours), and the other lives quite close, I can't...

I'm Pregnant! Do I marry this guy or not??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am in the Army and have spent the last 11 months in training and in a holding status. I had been seeing a guy for the last 8 months and broke up with him a week ago. The next day I found out I was pregnant. It was an accident and I was told ...

Am I asking too much of this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 6yrs split up last week. Due to his unreasonable behaviour and attitude toward our relationship. i have had my share of being a bitch and i have also regretted it. I have done everything possible to make him see im sorry and ...

My best friend's bf wants to date me! Does he mean it or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - okay, so my bestfriend is going out with one of my close guy friends that i've known for about 3 years. I never thought I had feelings for him, but these past days we've been talking on the phone alot about everything, mostly our relationships and ...

Why doesn't he want to meet up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Trying desperately to forget about this guy I had an affair with, but I still eagerly await a text or call. We only slept together once and now it has been 3 weeks since we've been together.We text about every other day, but never discuss what we ...

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and ...

I think my man is a pimp and I'm scared! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - please tell me if you think this sounds like something to do with organized crime-okay,so a few years ago I knew this girl who I'm sure was a prostitute-she would go to different men's houses and come back with cash-one day she took me to this man's ...

What can I do about this ongoing, troubled relationship with this guy?

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14 July 2009 (F) - hey this is a long story but i need advice? i know this guy years i started to hangout with him when i was 15 we were great friends he had a girlfriend my bestfriend at the time and the three of us were inseperable well after a 14 months he finished ...

Why do guys like you after you've moved on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - There is this guy named Andrew that I had a huge crush on. He never ever noticed or even spoke to me in class. I would even sit next to him on purpose or ask him a question about something just to get his attn. One time he completely ignored me and ...

Should I be bothered that he hasn't said those 3 words yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for going on four months now, and I couldn't be happier. We both have made the decision that this is it. We are for sure headed toward our "happily ever after" together. Now, I'm used to jumping right into ...

Is having chemistry important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I will start by saying that while I am open to the possibility of a relationship, I am very comfortable and happy being single. I have never been the type that has to have a boyfriend to feel secure and good about myself. And, often in the past, ...

How can we avoid all this anger towards each other? What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I do not know what to do and need advice. Been a very good friend with a guy for many years and we got on very well.we would talk and he always showed off and even showed me how too play music for the music events he did.used to drive him home.he ...

Are relationships with younger guys doomed from the start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - hey im 28 and i always seem to attract younger guys. i am young looking myself but is it going to work ou with guys that ar 23 cause so far it hasnt. or is it the fact im in love with sumone already that is spoken for but yet i can see it in his ...

I'm so frustrated! I put a lot of effort in with this girl and it was a waste of time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I went out with this girl I met online. I really liked her and we went out three more times after that. She was really cold and despite going out with me a few times, it looked like she wasn’t interested. I was frustrated but each time I would ...

I think she still has deep feelings for her ex. Should I prepare for the worst?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and eight months. She used to screw around with another guy before we got together, even occasionally when she was in a relationship. When we started dating, she said that was over. So did he...

I want to be there for him, but I don't know how if he won't tell me what's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Please help,I don't know what to do. Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up. My bf, ha...

Would it make things more complicated if we have sex? Surely there's no harm, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, an ex-girlfriend's mother is currently staying with me. I split up with her daughter years ago and she has since moved to Australia. It wasn't a bad split or anything, we were just young. Her mother and I kept running in to each other ...

He visits chat rooms and dating sites, yet he accuses me of hiding things!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my bloke for 3 years. for the last two he has developed a habit of visiting chat rooms and dating sites. we broke up time and time again. i get denial,aggressive behaviour,or blame. he says things like how do i know you dont go on ...

My girlfriend wants to give me a handjob, and I'm a bit unsure of what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been seeing this girl for not too long now. we've just been kissing and thats about it. I've been out with loads of girls before, but have not done anything but kissing and rubbing. She said she is going to give me a handjob next week. Bu...

I'm in love with my ex-girlfriend's sister, and she might feel the same way.... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - So... here goes. I've been in a really abusive relationship with my girlfriend (call her Sarah) for about five years now, and I haven't had the balls to call it off until very recently. Here's the hard part: Sarah's younger sister (call her...

Is he being friendly, or is it something more? I don't want to risk rejection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I feel that im in a confused state. I got to know this guy, age 29 back in 2008. FYI: im 22. We officially became a couple in jan,2009. But we broke up a month later because i was still having flings with my ex bf and he couldnt accept the ...

Help! My girlfriend's transforming into a sack of lard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Alright, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about five years now, since we were sophomores in high school. We've survived the transition to a long distance relationship in different universities and are completely committed to each other. I ...

I think he doesn't love me anymore, and his comments about my weight hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my botfriend now for almost 3 years. we have been through alot of bad times, but good times as well. i have stayed with him all summer long so far..things are great..but i feel like he isnt showing me enough attention anmore. he ...

Will it seem desperate if I ask him to hang out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for a couple of months, and a few days after our first date I asked him to have lunch with me that day - he couldn't, he was away for work that day. Then a couple of days after that I asked him to do something that weekend. ...

What is stopping me from moving on? My jealous ex or my FWB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy - sort of like a very close friends with benefits thing - until I moved to a different state a few months ago. We shared an intense connection but it couldn't go anywhere because of me moving and him not being ready for a ...

His mom keeps telling him to break up with me and meet new people! Should we ignore her, or do as she says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi! okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years now and I am in love with him. I have had many boyfriends before and have experienced a lot and so has he. I feel that he has every quality that I am looking for in a guy and he is ...

Should he have told me we could both see other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Would you be concerned if another female called a guy babe? A guy that you've been seeing for nearly 6 months? We aren't committed I guess,we've never really had the talk...we just see each other often and do couples type things together. Even took ...

He texts me and invites me out, is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - So I am just trying to figure out if this guy that I kind of like, is interested in me. I haven't known him for too long really. But some days he will text me and say "Hey What's up?" And he'll always ask me how my day has been. He's invited me...

He's going out the country will he ask me to be exclusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for the past 2 months, and next week he's going overseas for 2 months for work...so I'm wondering if, assuming he's really interested in me, he's likely to ask me to be exclusive before he goes? I don't want to ask him because ...

We really click, but he doesn't 'do' relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am really good friends with a guy I used to work with. We speak loads during the week and get along really well when we are together. Previously we have kissed and most recently we had sex! Which has been on the cards after months of flirti...

He says he wants to meet me but never says when

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Ive met someone who is a family friend of my partners family -last year we got close and he would tell me how attractive I was - he was all over me, we would arrange to meet up(which wasnt often) - we did not sleep together but would cuddle up and ...

Would you appear on the show Bachelor or Bachelorette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Here is something I wanted to float out there to all the Aunties and Uncles. It may seem stupid, but I have just thought I would ask. Right now, between working on my sites, and looking up at the television, I just ran into this trainwreck of a ...

Is it that he's really NOT in love with me or am I too needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months, but there are a few things that concern me. He doesn't have a car or a phone that are his so he can't call me or drive over to visit me. I have to come to him and pick him up.. this makes me ...

It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her ...

Stripper problem

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Iv been seeing a stripier for a long time at a club i really like her but im not sure it see likes me.Do you think shes just in it for the money and do you think she likes me also she treats me bad when i ask her stuff like how long you gonna be ...

Am I pushing him away by texting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i r kinda havin problems. we havnt been talkin that much and i havnt really seen him that much. is it possible that i hav been pushing him away the more i text him? should i just not try to text him?...