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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I seem like the rebound girl for these guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Just wondering if anyone is in my situation, do any of you always choose to fancy the wrong guys? For example, every now and again my exboyfriend starts talking to me again, flirting etc i start to think it could work again when it's not a good ...

Have any texts suggestions to encourage him to ask me out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I want to text some cute text messages to the guy I am interested in. Do you have a suggestion what I can text? Is there something that makes a guy smile and hopefully ask me out?...

My girlfriend wants nothing to do with sex, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - My Girfreind [ been freind for 4 years been going out for 3months] doesnt want to see my C*ck.......she says they are ugly....... she doesnt want anything like Oral sex fingering because it is slutty..she is completely turned off by a C*ck and ...

My friend is making passes towards my girfriend, should I confront him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Hi I have a question.Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years.I love her a lot and we have been through a lot.Now heres the thing me and my friend go to the same gym and so does my girlfriend after the last few weeks he has gotten ...

How can I improve comunications with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am such a mess. I going out with a guy for 7+ years and living together sharing with another guy for last year and a half. My problem is he doesnt talk to me about stuff. Recently I found he had run up a huge phone bill. I came across it and he ...

She slept in the same bed as a guy who has a crush on her, said nothing happened, should I beleive her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend went to her friends (friend #1 who is a girl) to hang out with friend #1 and friend #2(who is a guy, and has a crush on my girlfriend) She later texted me saying she was staying the night at friend #2's house. I later found out fr...

He won't talk to me anymore, should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Well i still love him,but now he will not talk 2 me.I've known him for 4 years,and we hang out off and on. It breaks my heart that he will not even talk 2 me anymore. When he stop tslking 2 me i know i went way 2 far on sending text messages. That ...

What should I do not to appear to be so available?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Guy are always to assured of me from the start? Now I want to start playing hard to get with this new guy I met? So I don't always want to be available? Any good ideas or success stories would be SO appreciated......

At this point she doesn't even know I exist!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm a guy, 24 years old and recently I started a new job. The place is great and most of the people are really nice. THe HUGE problem is that I'm a total looser. I'm one of those introverted melancholy type of people. Not to mention I...

I liked her so much I couldn't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I have a major problem. I have wanted this girl for a long time...recently she pretty much gave me the green light and i got so nervous that i couldnt even be turned on.....my heart was beating like a million miles an hour an i couldnt get an ...

I want to help my girlfriend be comfortable expressing her emotions. Any ideas how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I'm trying to get back with my ex-gf and she recently told me she considers herself an "emotional cripple" and that some of the more serious conversations we've had in the past made her very uncomfortable. I thought we were just sharing on a ...

Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like ...

I feel unattractive, and my boyfriend's comment didn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i have recently become very self conscious about my body. i'm petite with b cup boobs and i am not one who likes exercising. im not fat, though im not skinny either.my boyfriend has recently suggested me to start exercising, and though he says its ...

How do you keep a guy without sleeping with him at the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - How can you keep a guy without sleeping with him in the beginning? and where do you draw the line when making contact? ...

I constantly feel ugly and I'm scared my guy will leave me for someone prettier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i constantly feel ugly(whether its the fact that m on the chubby side or that i tend to break out with acne due to stress or that every day seems a bad hair day to me!) and i am scared my guy wil leave me for someone prettier. We have been together ...

Should I try harder, keep myself to myself, or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I have known my best guy friend for over a year now, we get on great. I used to like him A LOT, I confessed my feelings for him once and he said he only liked me as a close friend. I eventually got over him and our friendship was never ruined, so ...

I love my best friend to death

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I love my best friend but idk how to tell her my feelings. She's 1 1/2 years older than me and she's going off to college next year she is gna be four hours away untill I go to college wit her. But nowdays me and her watch movies together go swimin ...

Should I believe a Married Man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on ...

Is phone sex wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I was wondering if someone could tell me if phone sex is wrong with my bf...we've been dating for 41 months and pretty much do it every other nite....

He says "sike!" in response to "I love you"! What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - What does it mean when my boyfriend of two years says an I love you and when I respond with "I love you too" or "I love you more" he says, "sike" or "yeah right"? Does he really love me or does he really not believe I love him?...

This is beyond crazy! I have developed a twitch. I have thrown up multiple times at work from the loads of anxiety! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - It was a coworkers last day today and our boss took us all out to lunch. I had to make sure that I sat next to all women because my boyfriend would otherwise be angry. I was on gchat with my blackberry the whole time in case he needed to check on ...

Mistresses we need to stop!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really ma...

I've known him a week. How do I know he loves me and isn't just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i started dating a man i hardly knew since a week. we both spend time together and also on phone all the time. he too calls me whereever he is. he cares for me. but i dono if he is in love with me. we have already made out and stuff too soon. this ...