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Dating: Help and advice

He tells me "if it were to become more you would be the first to know"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. He separated from his wife 4 months ago and he was devestated. We love each other but I am worried that this a rebound relationship for him and he still might love his wife (she left him). I also found out ...

Why can't I find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - I am an average male, that is a hard worker and somewhat athletic but, I feel like I am being left out of a loving relationship? I have never kissed before, I have been depressed for the past week that I have not found love yet, but others can. Why ...

What do I do about the whole extreme shyness thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I like. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. We've ...

I'm dating a younger girl and want to do the right thing for a respectful relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - Please tell me what to do. I have been chatting with a girl who is lovely, mature and beautiful. she is 15 years younger and im not worried about that. we connect meaningfully over several (shes not in the same town) lengthy (3h+ phone calls) con...

Getting away from him after the summer will be a huge relief in one way, but in another, I won't be able to stand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - long story, so sit down, get a cup of tea or something, and get ready to read. me and toby have known each other since we were around 12. we started dating, actually, but obviously it was nothing serious. after a very difficult break up (he did...

Am I a weirdo?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - heeey ! right well i would just like to ask people am i a weido for not having a boyfreind or have kissed anyone in my whole life i know i sound like a proppa geek ahah ! but if i could just have you feedback and not rude comments i am sick of the...

If you were in my ex's position, would you forgive my new love interest, his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Ok for the purpose of this question I'll call the 2 guys Tom and Will. I apologise if this is a bit long but I feel I need to explain the history on this! When I was in my teens I started dating Tom and became really good friends with his best ma...

I don't want to be compared to the other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months im 16 and so's he and we have really good sex he always fingers me and i love it but i found out another girl gave him a blow job while he's with me and i forgave and its made me want to do it now ...

He told me I couldn't go to the gym because I might cheat on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Today I went to my local gym and I was excited about starting, then I told my boyfriend and he said I couldn't go in case I cheat with the instructor :( I need to go because my confidence is low as hell and i know that'd help so much, I’ve told my ...

I know my ex-boyfriend likes me, and I am going to wait for him to be ready to date again, but should I countinue to kiss him and hang out with him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have been getting closer lately. Hanging out a lot and talking again. Yesterday before he was going to pick me up to go to the pool with him, he texted me this..."I am having mixed feelings on what to do. Like I want to date ...

Is her disease even real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend says she has a disease called S.A.D. (social anxiety disorder) and she hates doing anything with me around other people (drinking, or just hanging out) and acts completely different around me than her friends. around her friends she ...

My bf harassed me, insulted me, cheated on me and made up terrible stories about me, why does he hate me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My story is long and it proves how stupid I was to stick to this damaging relationship! but I want you also know about it. I met a guy from Toronto in May 2006 in Montreal where I live. He offered me the same day to be my bf and returned to Toronto ...

Dead jealous of my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I am dead jealous of my boyfriend. We have been together for over 10 years, we have a son together and we live together for 7 yrs. now. we are planning to get married maybe next year. last weekend on a old friend gathering his ex. gf was there with ...

Are these signs that she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - Here's a girl that I liked, and for months, she's showed me those signs: -she giggles and laughs at me (even at things I say which are not hilarious) -she gave me a thumbs-up twice two separate times just before exams started -she would some...

I'm so confused and I feel so used!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - im not sure how this whole sex thing goes im only 13. but any way heres the story and tell me what to do...okay so i have a guy friend hwo lives walking distance away. i text him sometimes and well go hang out at the sovial hall. so one t...

Am I wasting time with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - i need help i want to know if im wasting my time with this girl. alright here it goes, im 2 months out of a 4 year relationship and during my relationship i met this girl at my friends house during a party about 6 months ago, she is 1 month out o...

What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...

What do I say to break it off with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - This guy fancied me, and we ended up kissing. I didn't really have chance to think it through, whether I wanted to go out with him or not, so now I am. He said 'I love you' and stupidly, I've now said it back. I think I do love him, but as a friend. ...

Should I confess to my boyfriend my insecure moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I am now in a great relationship that started off a little bit rocky. I grew to care about him and he went back and forth with his feelings about me as a friend and we dated for a minute before he realized he wasn't in the space to do so, so we ...

Will I end up an old maid?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...

Update: Is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I asked this question a few days ago and have an update and I need help: "I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it ...

He doesn't seem bothered anymore, and I'm beginning to wonder if our relationship is over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating him for over a year and am so in love he's the sweetest person I've ever met, but im beginning to think our relationship is over, he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to or really even talk with me anymore.. I mean I try to ...

We're not as close as we used to be...help! I don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him to pieces, I don't think hes cheating or anything, its just that we're not as close as we were a few months ago. We don't talk as much and he's been a bit snappy, but every time I ask ...

When a guy is touching a girl, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (?) - When a guy is feeling up a girl, what should the girl be doing? Something for the guy? Or just enjoy? Etc...

I'm stuck in a relationship back home and afraid to end it in case things don't work out with the other guy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I am in a very confused state. I am torn between two men. The first guy, (we'll call him John) and I have been in an on-off relationship for almost 6 years now. Initially I did love him, as he showered me with gifts, and did lots of little favors ...

She kissed her best male friend..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend confess to me that she kissed her best friend. She told me it was a mistake and had no feeling attached to it. Of course I got angry but im a reasonable person and i know everyone makes mistakes. I told her that I applaud her for ...

Is my boyfriend's ex a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hey, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we are pretty serious. He is 8 years older than me and has a 5 yr old son to his ex girlfriend. He has said to me that he was really in love with his ex and they were together for ove...

He's starting to spend all his time with his friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years. Things have always been pretty good Recently, he's gotten in touch with his friends from back home. Being the cool gf I am, I let him hang out with his friends. (even though he made me give up mine)...

He keeps going back and forth should I just give him up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - well there is this boy/my ex (we we're together for a long time)(10 months) that i realllyyy lovee with all my heart and i dont want to let go of him...but im not sure if i should or shouldn't??...i feel like i already lost him..but i didnt want ...

Etiquette for text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hi All, I'm wondering what is the proper etiquitte regarding txt messages. If you send a text to someone saying for instance,Hi just sending you theses hugs and kisses because i'm thinking of you and i care ect should you expect a reply or not . I...

How do I handle I like one girl but got another pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - Here's what happend. I'm in the military and I recently when on two sets of leave (vacation time): The first set of leave I went to a friends wedding out of state for four days and I met this great girl that I really like. We kind of hit it o...

I'm looking for something different but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - Hello guys, This is my situation. I have a girlfriend, we are currently on our 10th month this month. Everything seems to be in great shape. I know I love her, but not sexually, intimately or passionately. I don't know how, but I know I wan...

She has curves but bikini isn't appealing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

8 July 2009 (?) - What do guys think when a girl is wearing a bikini and it isn't very flattering, but the girl has killer curves? (so for example, she has big thighs too)...

Do you need to talk to each other about becoming serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Is it fairly universally accepted that to get serious with someone you're dating, you need to have a conversation with each other and agree to it? I'm assuming that's the case, but sometimes I get the feeling that the man I'm seeing might be ...

Do men gossip about their girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted ...

Roleplaying and whats "normal"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Ok. I have to ask this. if anyone roleplays what roles are normal? I know that I always have a boyfriends that are few years older then me. I always have called them daddy when we roleplay is that horrible??? ...

How do I get my dad to like my boyfriend? And is this relationship illegal or immoral? I'm almost 18, he's 26.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl, i turn 18 in 3 weeks. my boyfried is 26. we love eachother very much and things are going really well between us... however, some of my family, especially my parents dont approve and say it is morally wrong and some of my ...

How seriously should I take this comment that he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - What do you think it means if a guy's female friend starts mentioning he loves you in a half joking sort of way? This girl is nice, mature and 28 years old, so it's not like she's saying haha, you so love her! In a teenager sort of way. Or like his ...

Advice about asking an ex out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i broke up about a month ago. we have been going out for a little over a year. she said that she loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore. when we were together i had trust issues with her so she didnt go out much and she slept ...