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Should I wait, or should I forget him?

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Question - (16 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this guy i started seeing like a weeek before summer has gotten a job and he plays baseball

we were perfect for the first few weeks of summer

but hes stopped calling/texting me

if i wanna talk to him i have to call and text

but hes usually working, sleeping, or at practice

so obviously we havent been able to hangout for like 2 weeks

plus if hes not busy, i am

plus he use to tell me he really likes me and all this stuff

and i like him soooo much!

honestly missing him stresses me out like crazy!

do you think i should keep seeing him till skool starts and see what happens?

cuz i have a feeling that things will get better once we go to skool cuz we'll see eachother like everyday

or what should i do?

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntplay it cool don't you do all the chasing let him come to you.

leave it for a while and see what happens if he contacts you then great. but leave it for a while don't be too eager about this just play it cool leave it for a while don't text or call him wait for him to text or call you.

give him a chance to miss you :) as well as you missing him.

when you're in contact with him he's not really going to miss you because he knows you are there but if you don't contact him he'll start to miss you and then he'll text you or call you to find out what you're up to and stuff :)

simples!

hope this helps you hun :)

mesaage me you want to talk further.

x ilovebowsandcherries x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

Do whatever u feel is best for you.

2 options..

1.) Keep going with this relationship.You probably think u dont want to miss out on a great guy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a little struggle. Just know at the end of the day that he makes you happy. If u know it will get better && things will even out, he's worth the wait.

2.) Let it end. There are many guys out there, so why waste ur time on waiting for one. If he cant make time for you why waste your time on him?

Two paths to choose & only 1 we can take.

Pick one.

Good Luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

Stop chasing after him. If he is really that crazy about you, he will contact you.

Give him space to do his thing during the summer, and wait and see what happens during the school term......

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