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Dating: Help and advice

What do I do about this crazy Myspace situation?

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17 July 2009 (F) - I am 33, married with one child but I look really young for my age. Most people thought I am a college student. I met this guy at work who is 22 and has a maybe 3-4 year relationship girlfriend. He and I look about the same age. He is cute and looks ...

I can't help feeling jealous hes already had the big white wedding!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy that I'll call Sam for a little over 3 months, about a month ago we decided to become serious. My concern is this, he was married at a very young age but divorced her after he caught her cheating. He was truthful and did not ...

Need ideas for a night in that don't involve cooking or the bathtub!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - having problems with my partener and want to have a romantic nite in she does not like eating so cooking a meal is out and dont have bath in washroom any idea's would be great...

I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Hi, a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship. She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22. I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her? Thx...

Am I asking for too much in a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy on internet. He is 37 and I am 29 which is fine by me as long as he take good care of himself. Everything seemed great when we were emailing. We have a lot in common and he is very nice and has many good qualities. His profile says ...

Now that I have him, I'm not so sure I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - k so i've got a major teen issue. i really liked this guy and flirted with him for a year and had to watch from the sides as he wasn't very interested in me i guess and watch him flirt with my bf. she knew how i felt so it never turned into ...

My boyfriend told me he never loved her this way! Their emails say different...help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 or so months now but he is so much older than me and has lived so much life before me. He never really wants to talk about his previous relationships, bad times he went through, or he never ...

Now I have gotten older guys don't seem to fancy me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - When i was like 13-15 or 16 guys used to fancy me, but now i am 17 i don't think they do? and i have realised guys kinda hate me. does that mean i won't be in a relationship and what am i doing wrong and i'm scared? numerology say i am attr...

He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2

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17 July 2009 (F) - Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are ...

I'm starting to doubt if my girlfriend is the one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - hey everyone, me and my girlfriend are a good couple in my opinion but i feel like im starting to doubt shes the one. were both into the same things, she also inspired me to go back to school and she likes being wild in a public way but its just the ...

He realised its no good to continue a relationship that would end eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have written for advises on this site but I never get enough. I always come back for more as I am still as depressed as ever. Somehow, the advises seemed not enough. I will try to make it as short and as accurate as ever. I have been wit...

Do I confront my girlfriend about her trivial lies?

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17 July 2009 (M) - Hi - I have started seeing a new girl, have been going out for just over 4 months now and everything is going great. However, there are a few small issues that I have. The main problem is her lying (or what I believe to be) - we have had discuss...

Is our short-term relationship worth maintaining?

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17 July 2009 (M) - I've come home from university for the summer, and I've started seeing a local girl. We seem to be having a nice time together, and we both have already started to get a little attached to each other. The problem is of course that I will be going ...

I feel like he is not interested anymore and I don't know what I've done wrong. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, well 6 months to this exact day actually, and everything has gone really well (we've had our slight up's and down's but what couple haven't) but just recently he ...

How should I aproach this guy in my class? I'm kind of afraid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have a crush on a guy in my class. Everyone says he likes me but I don't know if it's true. There's a week left in school and I'm going to move soon. I want to tell him that I like him, but I'm kinda afraid. I need help ASAP. What can I do? theres...

Is it a compliment to be told I remind him of his mother or was it a sign he isnt really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I met a man online and we hit it off wonderfully in person. We have a lot in common, are both freedom loving and yet value the friendship and human touch. But, he made a comment and I'm not sure how to take it. He kept staring at me over dinner and ...

Is this man not over his ex-wife or is he bitter because of her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man who is intelligent, secure in his career and with himself. Further, we get along well. However, he appears to have a wall up towards truly expressing his feelings. If I say terms of endearment such as "honey or sweetie," ...

I'm not really sure why we broke up...did he get cold feet or felt that he wasnt a good boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Here's my story/summary: I apologize for the lengthy summary - it was hard to summarize.I mainly need opinions. My bf of 2 mos broke up w/ me. The reason for break up was numerous – one of the reasons: “I cant give u what u want (kids/marriag...

My boyfriend has lost all interest in me after only 5 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. He used to act like he just could not get enough of me. He text messaged me all day long, always told me sweet things, and was very sexually interested in me as well. Things were going ...

Should I lose my virginity to a guy who I'm only going to spend another month and a half with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and a virgin. My boyfriend of the same age is not a virgin. We started going out a month ago, and we were friends before that. I'm leaving in September for university, and we agreed at the beginning that we would not do long distance. We've ...

Lack of sex is making me want to leave my girlfriend before I cheat on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend tells me im hot and sexy. Very often i have to turn down other girls that want sex from me, but my own girlfriend never comes onto me. She has an extremely low sex drive and my only option is masturbation. I am in my early 20's and i ...

How do I approach this girl I've known from school but never spoke to before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Okay, so me and my friend were talking about the typical guy's thing: girls. We were talking about all the girls we knew in high school and wondered what they were doing after high school. I mentioned that I saw one girl (I'll call her Nicole), and ...

The girl I like just lost her virginity to a 19 year old guy! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I am a 15 year old boy with a problem. This is my first time writing my own question on this site. I really like this girl that lives near me. She is only 14 but that is because she is born in December, so we're basically the same age. She is a very ...

What does eye contact/staring mean to a guy?

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17 July 2009 (F) - I'm just wondering. When you check out this one girl once in awhile, or like when you have eye contact with her, you hold it for awhile before breaking it away without smiling, what are you actually thinking? I mean, being attracted and being ...

Girlfriend wants to have sex with another man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man. First of all i know this question was probably asked on here thousands of times but i really have no one else to talk too. This all started over a year ago i was working it a job that i needed b...

Why he reacts like that when other guys flirt with me?

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17 July 2009 (F) - A guy at work, he likes to flirt with me and seems to hit on me sometimes, he looks at me and likes to be near me and stuff. But, I´ve notice that when other guys from work tease me out and play jokes on me he keeps quite and only smile but no like ...

Any ideas for a nice romantic visit to the beach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going to the lake tomorrow by ourselves without any parentals around and i'm very happy about it. Since we'll be at the beach, and a lot of romantic things happen on the beach, I was just wondering, is there anything..special ...

Why is he ignoring me? Why didn't he want to come to England to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - i ned some advice as i am going crazy with thinking. i went to turkey for 2 weeks, went with people that really i should not have done and was unhappy after 2 days of getting there. i aked the hotel manager was their any spare rooms but hotel was ...

Bus girl blues update!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Continuing the Harry Potter update thought I'd let you know I had a first date tonight with my bus girl. It went really well and she sent me a text saying as much too. Catch is, I look so much younger than I actually am she was pretty shocked w...