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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Broken trust... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My boy friend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and are almost alwasy together. To avoid doing anything stupid we always only drink when were together. Last night my boy friend and i were hanging out with some people from his new job. I had ...

Snoozy sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Last night me and my boyfriend were really drunk, we went to bed and had sex (we always use condoms) then we fell asleep in each others arms. I can vaguely remember waking up in the middle of the night still half asleep to pull the quilts over ...

Been with him 6 years but he says I'm not ready to be his wife yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - We have been together for 6 years I'm 24 now almost 25 and I'm ready to get married and have a baby. He wants a baby too but says I'm not ready to be a wife yet. He says I don't keep the house clean all the time and I'm supposed to be his best ...

White female attracted to black guys...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I am a white female and i am really attracted to black guys. Its not just a physical thing, its their confidence. It's just my preference. Everyone has preferences right? The only problem, is there where i live, black guys like white girls for ...

Underappreciated and undervalued, she treated her exes better than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm new to posting on this website, but i have come here for advice before dealing with my relationship. my girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 8 months now. things were amazing in the beginning. she would do anything to please me ...

How can I control my anger problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it ...

I'm unsure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and I feel I am really wasting my time. Although he is good company and I can talk to him about most things, there is no romance or passion in the relationship. He has never said he loves ...

Is he really ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Looking for some advice please. I have been going out with a guy for about 1 year. We are very close and moved in together about 5 months ago. It was the best thing we could have done and it was his suggestion as we'd been spending most nights ...

Should I be worried that he'll cheat on me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - my boyfrind went to south carolina for work. He called me one day and told me that his ex was coming so he could see his daughter that he hasnt seen in 3 yrs. But the problem is she is stayin with him at his brothers house. She wont let him talk...

I need to get closure on this mess.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I really do need help. 6 years ago i split with my fiance because i felt he didnt care about me or love me very much. at the same time i was friends with another guy who i developed feelings for. i didnt do it intentionally so eventually i le...

If I don't make a move I'll always wonder "what if..."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I have been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over 2 years. She is cute and very sweet but, there is a problem. You see my best friend and hers are also dating and the four of us always hangout together. Now I've always had a bit of ...

Is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy? Recently, i have been building my confidence and i find that going on dates with guys i know i'm not attracted to really gives me a boost as its getting me more comfortable arou...

My current boyfriend or Seth?

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12 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over seven months and he's been everything to me, he's been the only boyfriend i can be weird and myself around and do silly things to and with. A month ago i moved back to a city 45 minutes and we ...

Why do I keep thinking back about this incident from my past...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - hey, i dont really know how to put this, ill try to keep it short. I was talking to my boyfriend the other day about embarressing things we did when we were younger and one thing popped up that i remembered when i was little, in year 3. I went t...

Is he playing with my head or is he really taking time to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hello :D Okay, so I have liked my closest guy friend for a few months now. I told another friend, and he told him that I liked him. I was okay with that, I was actually really relieved and happy. So me and him were talking about it, I offered ...

I'm 18, he's 16 and my parents will not be happy about me dating him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been single and content for a while now, and so has a guy friend of mine. He came over my house the other day for a haircut and to hang out afterwards, but what is usually friendly poking, hugging, and tickling (we are silly...and ticklish) ...

Why does a guy mean when he tells others he wants to make me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - What does a guy mean when he ask me if I am happy and when he tells others that he wants to make me happy? ...

He's my own personal drug and I'm addicted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I fell in love with a guy who doesnt love me back. I spend the night at his house and we have sex cuddle and hang out and have fun but a couple weeks later he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and were all good. Until I see him and I suddenly...

What does he want from me? Getting mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Well, I dunno how to start but I really need help. I'm 21 and the one I like is 22. We are from the same city. His house is close to mine, but we barely can meet as it is against the traditions in our country. Moreover, he studies in the states, ...

How can I ask her out with her friend being there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Ok so I'm 13 and I don't know what to do. I know have decided to hang out with this girl I've started to like and i though We'd go to like a movie, but we're going to my house so I was like OK then she said her friend(girl) was coming. How can I ask ...

Feelings for my ex-husband's uncle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a 24yr old female with 2 children 10mos and 25mos. I am newly divorced but have been seperated for 3 years. The prooblem is I have always had feelings for my ex-husbands uncle. We have always been friends before my husband and I met. My ex ...

He never answered my question, then sent me a crazy message, should I ask for an explanation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were texting at a normal rate. After a text I sent him asking if I can call him, he never replied. It was around one thirty in the morning. I thought about it some more, he probably didn't want me to call him so I wouldn't find ...

Do I want him back just because I don't have him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - So I dated guy #1 for a few months and I really fell for him. We loved each other very much, and we had an amazing time together, but as time passed by, he became very absorbent and overbearing. He was very jealous, wouldn't let me see my friends, ...

How do I make him do sweet things for me?

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12 July 2009 (F) - So I have been in a serious relationship for a year and four months. I live with my boyfriend and he is my first serious relationship. I always talk about wanting to be together for a long committed relationship but i am unsure if he wants to be. I ...

Guys know a girl is interested because the girl shows some interest right?

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12 July 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm 21 years old and have not had a proper relationship since I was 18 - before then I'd been on two, one of which ended badly. It took me a long time to get my confidence back after this and feel that only now has it really started t...