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Dating: Help and advice

How do I show that I have feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - this summer i am a cit [councelor in training] at camp and i am really attracted to this guy two years older than me. i have been secretly crushing on him since the second week of camp started. today, we hung out around camp and discovered we had a ...

I have a boyfriend and the chef at work is hitting on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hi all. Im 16, and have just got a part-time job at a restaurant to earn some extra money as a waitress. My mum knows the owners, and sometimes helps out there herself, and one of my mates works there and so does my cousin. My boyfriend has also ...

Our relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere - how long do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - ok so i have a boyfriend , since is summer we havent seen each other since the last day of school. he asked me out like 5 days ago and its been kinda going ok but lately it's like he dont dont give a fuck. excuse the language. but anyways i have onl...

My best friend and I are in a big fight because of my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I have two very close friends. One is a girl, one's a boy (E.). They are dating, but the three of us are close friends since we've known each other for three years now (my friend's have been dating for 1 and a half years now). Point i...

Dating a cousin's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Do you think a guy would feel uncomfortable dating his girl cousins best friend? I just wanted to know what you guys thought about this situation. Would you not want to get into a relationship?...

He said I love you and I didn't say it back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me he loves me for the first time! But I didn't say it back. We had a rough couple of days where we weren't really getting along and I was feeling terrible about it and it was making me cry. And he said he was sorry and that he ...

Should I keep seeing him, or the whole "baby" and "ex" situation too much to bother with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - HELP! well first off i meet this guy maybe 10 years ago when i was younger, he used to come through to where i stay for the summer holidays to visit his family and we hung around with each other ....long story short...puppy love! He u...

Am I actually in love with my best friend, or have I led him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Alrighty, I'm in just a tiny bit of a situation. I've been in love with my best friend for about three years now, and now that's he's acting like he feels the same way about me, it kind of freaks me out. And I feel horrible because maybe I've led ...

I need help understanding shy guys, does he like me or is he just being polite?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Shy guys are very confusing and frustrating. This guy at my work is around 26. He is so so shy his dad tries to set him up on dates and from what I have found out he only has had one girlfriend. One of my friends at work told him that I thought he ...

She broke up with me because of my friendship with other girls. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for almost a year. We were never exclusive but we were dating and over the past three months, we were very serious. In fact,we went out several times a week. Well, back at the end of may, she went out with friends and ...

What should I do if I find flirtacious comments by my boyfriend dated almost a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I ...

She hardly texts me any more; my friend says I'm being clingy ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. this is the first relationship for both of us. when we first started going out, we would text everyday, almost all day. but lately shes been only texting once a day. we used to see each...

I want to delete him, then he calls! What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (?) - I seperated a few years ago and never thought i'd meet someone until last year when i meet a guy on a girlie weekend, we kept in touch and met up late last year but since then we haven't seen one another. Everytime i go to delete his number from my ...

In my 30's and still single and the future's not looking so bright either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Is it strange being 30+ and never having a boyfriend and never being kissed . I have had a lot of rejection by guys and still paying after 11 yaers. I am very shy, quiet, low self estreem. I am also overweight, short, plain looking and not great pe...

We're still together after he hurt me a lot, but I'm finding it tough. Can the damage ever be reversed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I went through a very tough few months where he was very verbally abusive. We have made it through those times and are moving forward, I am doing so with caution. However, I can not shake the empty feeling that I have inside. ...

Should I really believe my father after all he has put me through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hey, i was wondering if anyone can help as this is kind of very important and disturbing. Ok i was talking with my father one night and he started asking about my boyfriend, as he asked more questions he said he is related to a family with the ...

Is it ok to date your best friends brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hi, needing some advice. Nothing has happened yet but I want to get some advice before it does so that maybe I have a better idea of what I'm doing. A few months ago my best friend went away abroad for a year - shes studying abroad. We're r...

I'm sick of being hurt and afraid to get involved again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - So the deal is Im sick of being constantly hurt by guys and now Im too scared to get involved with anyone because I feel like Im just setting myself up to be hurt again. Sure most of the time with them is great but when things go wrong/end it feels ...

I'm not a leper am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl. My parents are pretty old fashioned and conservative, especially my mom. She's spent my whole life telling me what I can wear, who I can hang out with, ect. My mom has even told me she doesn't want me dating.....

My family doesn't like this guy and are taking bets on me getting pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - my life sucks i just started daiting this jarid july 1st and his big bro looks out for me so i call him big bro 2 and my whole family hates me and jarid together like my bro said he wants to kill him but i really like this guy and every time i talk ...

I can feel his erection when we hug! How do I let him know in the right way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - First off, my boyfriend and I work together. We don't have a lot of days off together, so we see eachother at work most of the time. Coworkers aren't allowed to date, so we act like everythings normal when people are around, so naturally there's ...

My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is r...

Do men talk to their friends about women they like/are interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted ...

Is he interested in possibly dating me?? Is the ball in my court and I should make the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Something kind of exciting happened to me the other day but I don't know what my next move should be. I just hired a lawyer to do some work for me and I have met him only three times. Our last meeting was a few days ago and it was all business like ...

I don't know what he wants. We haven't fought, but he's ignoring me. What's going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Met him on FB and we have been emailing each other for 6 months till we met and really like each others qualities. I am confident that he is a genuine person. The only issue is that he has a girlfriend. It was at the beginning stages when we got to ...

My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it? What should we do during so it's not phone sex and not like watching porn? Due to work sometimes we have to be apart for a few weeks at a time and I really want to ...

When they tell me they love me I start to feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about this, I've thought about it a lot and I think I always want what I can't have. Lately I've been seeing a new guy, and until he said he really likes me I was feeling very attracted to him, but now not so much. And about ...

I don't want sex, but she's had sex once before. Should I start a relationship with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent....

Why do I love the smell of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Why is it that I love the smell of my boyfriend? Any other guy I just don't like how they smell, but when I smell my boyfriend or smell his scent faintly near by it just puts me on cloud nine. I have never been like this with any other boyfriend or ...

My girlfriend is not affectionate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and I don't feel she is affectionate enough now as she was before. (I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX) I have talked to her about this and she feels that it is just her personality. Sometimes i wonder ...

I need help with how to talk to women! I've gotten nowhere!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound like a stupid question, but I need help with how to talk to women (dating, relationships). I am a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and frankly, it's pathetic. I always freeze up when a woman talks to me or ...

What should I do? He wants to give it time before we have sex, and has a thing for shopping.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - i am on the topic of trying new things that we never done before and it has already been done and that whats keeping us closer and we even come to a conclusion to moving to a different city for that major change. i am a gay dad of a 8year old boy ...

Do 'cute' guys attract different girls than 'hot' guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - A general question here....do girls prefer guys who are cute or hot? Because throughout my life i have always been told by girls how cute i am and my brother who is a couple of years older always gets told how hot he is, and he has had heaps of ...

Our heartless, intimidating 'act' is keeping me from finding a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - In my friendship circle there are 3 of us who are single and we're the closest 3 who do everything together. However we dont class ourselves as your average girls we seem to have this image where by we're just 'some of the lads' and we got on with ...

He kept me waiting for hours! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 9 weeks, well, he is my boyfriend and he is working out of town right now. He came back for 4th and I was waiting for him and he said he would be at my house like and hour didnt show up but then called me like 3 hours ...

If there was so much passion and memories, will he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I've been with a man now for 4 months and I've fallen in love with him, he's told me he loves me too. He had plans to go to Texas for awhile, long before we began dating, now that he's gone. Im finding myself lost for words and skeptical of our ...

I like the girl who dated my brother. Is that wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - ok so i went to this fair in my home town and i met this girl i already sorta knew her cuz she dated my little brother well recently me and her have been hanging out alot and i really like her would it be wrong to go out with her if she already ...