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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I love my boyfriend but I think about girls in sexual ways!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so here goes.. I'm with this guy, love him to bits, seriously love him, never felt like this before. It drives me crazy! BUT... I have a slight thing. I don't know what to do or make of it. You see i do love my boyfriend very much, bu...

I'm afraid to find happiness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I would love some advice as a single Mum ! My husband walked out on me and my family and is seeing another woman. I was heartbroken. An admirer from my past has telephoned , sent texts and says" he will there for me ". I feel I can never trust ...

Should I wait for him to heal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - ?? How much is too much?? - my question is.. well i have this crush.. and he's absolutly wonderful. i like him alot and he likes me.. but!! he recently got out of a relationship (as did i) and he's well..(he says)kinda broken from it. but he loves...

Thank you! Your advice worked..but how do I keep him this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I'm really thankful to u because your idea worked. I told u about my boyfriend that he neglects me. When I call him he says that he doesn't wanna talk. But after consulting with u I stopped calling him just for one day and then he realized that what ...

I have to end it with this guy but not sure how...Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I need to end it with this really nice guy as i'm just not that into him. but its going to be really unexpected for him and he is going to be heartbroken. i've never had to do this before and i really don't want to do it in person, as its g...

How do I tell him I've changed my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid. About a year ago i wrote on here when i was thinking about getting back with my ex boyfriend. I did end up getting back with him. I have known him for 4 years now and we have been back together for 10 months. We are also engaged. Which ...

I hate having these negative feelings about women and it's consuming me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Hi where do i start. Im a 27 year old man and im really struggling with handling how much casual sex i see around me, though friends and people i meet out on a night out. Iv just come out of a long relationship almost 6 years. it was over due a...

I feel like a dirty, cheating tramp! Please help....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - i really need some help as i just feel awful. i feel as thought i can never forgive myself for something i did, 6 years ago i was friends with a guy at work. i liked him a lot to talk to and he made me laugh. i ws engaged to another guy at th...

I need Male opinions on this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch ...

Being yourself :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I only wrote an article a little while ago but I like sharing little bits of life so here we go with another one! And by the way, I'm talking about men but obviously the same applies with women :) I often ask my male friends for advice. Every so...

I feel at my age I'll never meet someone nice again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I am 49 years old and very lonely. The last man I dated turned out to be very controlling and was very weird. I haven't dated anyone else, and I'm afraid of internet dating (afraid I will meet another psycho who misrepresents himself). I have ju...

Why am I feeling jealous about other girls if I don't want to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid, its my first time on this advice site, so im here for advice recently my best friend has told me that he has feelings for me. background information: we dated about a year ago for only around a month, we didn't know each other very w...

She's dated all my friends but wont date me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Ok there's this girl I really like and she's dated ALL my close friends but she won't date me. I know she likes me but she won't date me. She's even admitted to liking me to my face. but she's been so cold to me since this "incident". One track day ...

I'll be a complete outcast with his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - (I'm 16, just to stop any confusion) I have this little problem that I'm over thinking. My boyfriend has gotten a once in a life time opportunity ahead of him and me and his daughter who I love are going with him. Yesterday my boyfriend text...

Mixing business with pleasure?

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6 July 2009 (F) - does that saying stand true never mix business with pleasure. when to people who work and play sport with in a competitive environment...

Why do guys like you when you are already taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - ok i was talking to this guy trevor (i like him alot) and my current boy freind (jerid) b 4 we satrted dating and then jarid asked me out but i was trying to get trevor to ask me out so finnaly i just said yes to jarid and then trevor asked me out i ...

I'm not good at figuring out the signs if a guy is interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about a month after knowing him for a couple of months before that. Before meeting him, it's been a long time since I've done any dating so I'm out of practice at reading any signs and I'm not sure how much he's ...

Whenever we made plans they didn't work out and now I think she doesn't like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - ok so im really shy around everybody that i dont know well and i really like this girl. we used to talk everyday and we made plans to hang out this one day(im not in town that much) and it didnt work out so we made plans the next day and again it ...

Does she not take me seriously because of my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Ok everyone i need some advice.... I'm 22 and recently i've met a girl who is 29(the most beautiful girl i've ever met). I started talkin to her and we hit it off pretty good. A few weeks went by where we just talked and finally we got together ...

It's so awkward talking to this guy that asked me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Ok this guy i really liked FINALLY asked me out! But.. my parents dont know. If i told them they would say i have to say no. The guy asked me out on msn wen i was at my friends sleepover. This happened during the summer. I'm 13 btw. And we talk on ...

He's obsessed with sleeping around! Can he still be in love though?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - how is it possible that a man can ever be truly committed to someone when they're all so obsessed with sleeping around? how can a man fall in love with anyone, when all they're concerned with is tits and ass? i know it happens--that men fall in ...

Love sick for my step-cousin: how do I show her I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Alright, i've got this step cousin that i'm starting to love over the years. We've slept together couple times, tease each other and we're closer than our own cousins. Now it's to the point where i'm love sick over her. If you could i need help on ...

Is there anything I can do to avoid hurting 1 (or both) of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I moved about 1000 km from my home town a few months ago. Before I moved, I was seeing this guy but we didn't get serious for a few reasons - 1) he got badly hurt by his ex and needed to work through some things before he could think about getting ...

Should I call him tomorrow even though he didn't reply to my text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I called this guy i really care about. I was in town,and wanted 2 see if we could hang out. He says what happen 2 letting me know your coming ahead of time? He says u gotta let me know. I normally let him know. I text him,and tried talking him into ...

How can I keep continuing our flirty friendship without seeming too interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Okay, here goes: I was dating a girl that I was a really good friend with. We knew each other for a year and a half before that time. Her kids love me to death and mine love her and her kids. Well, about March of this year we started to activ...

He doesn't ever get jealous -- does he really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - hey , well i've been seen this guy for a year now and i've noticed that he's not jealous at all , he sees me talking to guys all the time and am a very good looking girl and he doesnt seem to care at all if guys look at me or flirt with me and it ...

I'm feeling unloved and thinking of ending the relationship -- advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 16 years old and I have a bit of a problem. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. He broke up with me last year, but we got back together and everything has been going reasonably well since we got back together a few ...