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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Not going to see him for 2 weeks, will be with his female cousin, why am I jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Ok so its the summer holidays and my boyfriend and I are used to spending alot of time together, (I do let him have time to do other things and see his friends whenever he wants) His cousin is coming over from where he comes from and staying at h...

Should I let my b/f go clubbing with his mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. I've recently turned 18 and he's nearly 20. We live together now and throughout our entire relationship he always told me he prefers not to go clubbing because it's not for him. Then out ...

Break up? Don't want to hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Ok well... There's this guy in the year above who really likes me but I keep turning him down coz I like this other boy in my year I've liked since I was 10... well I really really love him... So I eventually said yes to the boy who asked me out...

Protective and jealous but doesn't want to be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - okay so lately my ex boyfriend has been acting really protective and jealous but he says he doesn't want to be with me.....i don't understand...how can he be over me but get so mad every time i do so much as talk to another guy???...

He's got a girlfriend so why is acting so nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I started a job around 3 months ago. I noticed a guy at work, we both seemed to stare at eachother. We got on well and when he spoke to me he seemed to really warm to me, however on that same day I felt this, he told me he was off to meet his ...

What are people's views on dating a third cousin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - hi, i recently got back in touch with my third cousin. we're both 19 and related through blood. every year when i was born i would spend a week up north with my cousin and we grew up together really close.we used to kiss under his duvet when we ...

Am I too nervous? Or just not ready for a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Ok i am like 20 y/o and i wanna know is it normal to be able to talk to a female, on msn/yahoo/aim/games/phone easier than talking upfront to em? i get all nervous while even being near a female, sometimes i have tears coming down my face but i do ...

I want my boyfriend to be with me 24/7..is that ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, he lives with his older brother while I live at home with my parents. He is really good when it comes to calling me everyday to tell me what he's doing. He tells me that he loves me but that he also ...

We made a promise to tell each other if anything happened, but I don't want to say anything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - ...so i dated this guy for year and we have this plan that we're going to be together again [we broke up because i moved]. we said that while we're not together we're gonna have fun and all we're both in college and so we're going to have fun...

Why do boys like touching girls' breasts? Should I let him do it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Hi, everyone. I've been dating this guy for about 7 months and we make out quite often.. Sometimes when we're kissing he would put his hand underneath my shirt and start touching my boobs.. I get really upset and i'll show it to him.. Should i let ...

How to get this 13-year-old to want to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - ok, so im going out with this AMAZING girl. im 13 and i just dont know how to get her to want to kiss me. ...

We both like each other but he used to play games before! Should I ask him out or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with a guy I am interested in because he always delays on answering my text messages. When he texts me he ask me if I have a free time, I answer and then after one or two weeks he says he was very very busy. I knew him for four months and ...

If he's interested, he'll ask me out again, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I went out with a guy this past Sunday. Tonight he asked me if I wanted to go to this place tomorrow with him in the day time, but I can't because I have to work. So I texted him something like "stuck at work till 8..would definately go with you ...

Don't want to wait to have sex, but don't want to get pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - kay..i already made a post or whatever, but im gonna make another one. i really really love the guy im with and we haven't had sex yet. he says he'll wait for me as long as i need him to. the question is is if i can wait. i'm really ready. and i'm ...

I'm a 22 year old virgin and I just want someone to love

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Im a 22yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I hang out with a large group of friends and i always feel like the 5th wheel that cant roll with the group due to the fact ...

I didn't want him to hurt himself so I'm going back out with him...but I'm so confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Okay So im like 15 i know a bit young but i really need advice. see ive been going out with this boy since the beginning of may, but ive liked his friend all the way through the time weve been dating, and well at first i really liked my boyfriend, i ...

Is this too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17, and have been taking it fairly slowly (this is my first serious relationship, and he respects that). However, we've recently been getting more intimate. Mind you, nothing below the ...

Tough choice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - I like two girls, but I only want one (obviously). They both like(d) me very recently, and I cant really choose, but I have to. I’m genuinely unsure of what to try. One girl is totally outgoing, very nice and my next door neighbour. The other one is ...

I'm attracted to him but not sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - this is what happened....so im 19 year old mom idk if this has anything 2 do....n at school there is this guy i like and hes really really quiet. And maybe a while ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out ...

Should I be mad cause she had sex before me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Hey I got a problem that is threating to end my relationship. For some reason i keep getting mad at the fact that my girlfriend has sex in the past with other people. I have never felt this way twords someone and when i tell my friends my problem ...

He keeps going into chatrooms, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I've been with my bf for 2 years, we have a child together. Lately i noticed him going into chatrooms.. what does this mean? ...

Why does he chat with other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - i have been in a realtionship for 2 years now, we have a baby together . LAtely i've notice that my partner has been going on tis specific chat cite. I was unforttable with it, i spoke to him he got upset ans we didnt speak to each other for 2 ...

I have guilt that he cheated on her with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - hey im 15. okay so i love this guy and he says he loves me too. we started talking alot and became reallyclose about 9 months ago. we were like best friends. i had stronger feelings for him but i decided not to tell him because he had a girlfriend. ...

How can I help my girlfriend to become the feminine to my masculine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Girls, please help and give me some advice or insight if you can!! I love my girlfriend very much, but I've been having some attraction issues. What I mean is that she doesn't seem to be interested in being all that feminine. She doesn't wear a s...

Have you cheated or been cheated on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I am just curious how frequently people cheat or get cheated on? By partners, fiances, spouses? And if you have cheated, why did you do it? Is cheating unavoidable in long term relationships? Do all partners get bored at some point?...

Can someone interperate cyber language?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - i received a message from an online female friend who i care for so dearly and it read as follows: HATE YOU* what's with the asterisk? does it mean anything? i'm just not sure if it simply means that she hates me or more. i really wanna know what's ...

How di I tell if she is looking for some fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - What signals do I need to look for from a woman to say she has more than being a "friend" interest in me?...

My fiance called off our wedding and engagement

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I need some advice.....My fiance called off our wedding and engagement 7 weeks before we were supposed to get married. (August 1, 2009). He had gone away to Maine for memorail day weekend with some friends. He came back acting a little distant and ...

Should I play by the DOG HOUSE RULES ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I just met my bf's friends and I really don't like them at all. They are the most disrespectful people I have ever met and I find them to be quite sexist. They make the most awful "jokes" I have ever heard. They think its funny talking about wo...

Boy number1 or boy number 2 ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

11 July 2009 (?) - Oh, boy! I'm in a huge relationship crisis! I really liked the guy I'm dating, but now he seems like a big jerk. But my problem is this. He won't let go, and I'm starting to like this other guy. But this other guy, well, my parents don't like ...

Is he Mr Right? or MR Right Now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now. Before we started dating I was a virgin and he tells me that he has loved me since the first time he laid eyes on me four years ago. Ever since then we were just friends and he alway...