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Why is he letting our friends control his decisions?

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Question - (16 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

About the 22nd of June, my boyfriend left with his family to go to Flordia to visit some other family. I was a little worried because I know that two of his exs live there and the one I despise lives closest to where he was staying. When he got back, he said he didn't see her, though he had wanted to. A few days later we got into a small disagreement and a several friends of ours interfered. He got very upset and broke up with me, though I had done nothing. We went back out the same night and this was a little of two weeks ago. Last week his little sister got into a fight with our friends and revealed he only went back out with me because he felt sorry for me and she said that she was angry with me because I forced him, which I did nothing I was just upset and crying because of what happened. We've been broke up since then and I just can't see why he'd let our friends control his decisions and I want him back badly. He said he would go back out with me but only when he's ready. My friends think he has talked to that ex but he swears he hasn't. I'm so confused can anyone help?

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A female reader, Hannah-Kimberley United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2009):

Don't listen to what his sister says, it doesn't help. you need to give hime time it sounds as though he doesn't know what he wants, for this he will be grateful to you. Although offer to be someone who he can talk to as friends, if you do get back together then your relationship will be stronger because you will be able to trust each other more. Try not to rush him, boys can get aggressive easily. Hope i helped (: good luck

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