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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Guys, what kind of presents do you like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - heyy i really need suggestions for my boyfriends birthday present! im 15 and hes turning 17. guys what kinds of presents would you like, or what was the best present you ever got? and girls what was the most appreciated present you ever gave? i need ...

I don't know who to choose, I like them both very much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Okay so there's two guys who like me and I like them both very much. Guy #1 I started seeing a month beforehand and we started hooking up. It's not clear it he wants to be boyfriend girlfriend with me because he introduces me as a friend to his ...

I really feel that it is love! But the age difference....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Basically, i really love this guy, he tells me he likes me to, sometime i feel like hes leading me on, but hes afraid to let his feelings out because of the age gap between us, im 15 and hes 21, our birthdays are on the same month, mines before his, ...

The new, the ex, or the bestie? Which one should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i don't know how to choose at all. i just recently met this guy and he's everything i want in a guy, positively. he's so sweet and he's just amazing. but i feel like it was too quick of a decision but i can't help but have feelings for him. And the ...

How can I prove to my boyfriend that I'm making an effort to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My b/f and I have a lot of problems lately. He said that he couldn't take it anymore because I supposily changed. I think I changed alittle but not a lot. But he don't see me trying. He said that he is only going to give me one last chance. For me ...

He's going to try again with his ex, but still wants to talk to me! Should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I was seeing this man for 7 months who is divorced and younger than me..His ex has decided she wants to try to work things out..he has decided to go back to try. How can he say he loves me and want to try to work it out with her..Our age is 20 years ...

4 questions in one! Am I in love??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - (I'll say it now: I'm 17) I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and if anyone asks me how our relationship is going, I'll impulsively replay "Amazingly!" or some other word like it. But I know that something's just awkward with us. ...

I suffer from involuntary celibacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born ...

Whenever we arrange to do something, b/f cancels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my guy, whenever we arrange to do something he always cancels. hes used many excuses till i got the truth out of him that he doesn't think i will love him when i do. ive tried to be supportive but im worried that what happens ...

"Go find someone else to treat bad!" ...that's what she said and it hurt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend was in a bad mood after work which is understandable. I was being nice and asked my friend to leave so we could be alone. She started taking out something the dog did that was not my fault. She thought she heard me say something under ...

New girlfried doesn't contact me as much as I'd like. I don't want to seem needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - i met a new girl recetly. we have a lot of fun together, we laugh and have good conversations and shes really good lookin in my opinion. the thing is shes a bit insecure, she doesnt txt as much. im always havin to txt her askin if she wants to meet ...

I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he ...

How can I strike up a conversation with the girl I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - i live a couple of houses away from a girl that i really like. i am the same age as her and she is a presenter on a news show. she doesn't have a boyfriend and i really do like her i would like to ask her out but what should i say? because i am not ...

I read messages on my boyfriends phone and don't know if it's innocent or not. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi. This kind of thing is always asked, but I just don't know what to do! Basically, I read my boyfriend of 6 months messages a few weeks ago because he is so protective of his cell, I know this is wrong and that I have betrayed his trust, ...

I'm 15, he's 19, I have alot of insecurities & don't know how to approach our issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Right, this is a long one, so I apologise for it! The usual thing of "my boyfriend isn't really affectionate." but I'm actually willing to offer myself some answers for it, and see if anyone can help me out on them. I know his ex, he was wit...

He became ill and the relationship fell apart, almost a year on he wants to try again, I'm scared of being hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 3 months a year ago, last summer. He became very ill after about 6 weeks of us being together and was hospitalised for near on a month. I know 3 months isn't very long in terms of relationships, and even though it's likely ...

We've been together over 4 years, but he says he's falling for someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I have being dating my boyfriend 4 1 and half years,now he is falling in love with another girl but he claim he loves me and cannot leave me,since i discovered he is cheating on me:can i quit the relationship or still be patient with him...

Does lack of sex kill a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My friend just told me that her husband had filed for divorce which I am really shocked by as they seemed to get on so well together. When she talked to me about the things that were happening that she didn't like in the relationship, it sounded ...

She's really sending me mixed signals and I'm confused! Any advice on what she's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - OK, so i met this girl a few months back, and I fell for for her very fast. She knew how i felt about her, and for a month and a half or so things were extremely perfect! we never fought, and always enjoyed being around each other. About a month ago ...

My ex wants to be my "friend with benefits"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up , now he wants to be friends with benifits ,, we broke up because i'm not ok with him talkin to a certain girl ,whom we once broke up because of her , it's not that i'm jealouse but we have sex and in the middle of it ...

My boyfriend replies to other people's texts, so why not mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I just dont get this! Why is it like this? My mates a lad, hes 19...hes a really nice guy. But its weird, he says im a great friend to him and stuff but theres one little thing thats getting me down that i cant ask him about. Hes had a habbit like ...

He's so verbally abusive

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I'm so confused, me and my boyfriend have a relationship of 5 years. When he gets angry he says really hurtful things like " you bitch, your deaf, you dumb slut" he tells me he has a short fuse and can't controll himself. Last night I had enough a...

My boyfriend says I am controlling and selfish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend ,, been dating for 3 years, the problem is that he says that i'm a controlling selfish girlfriend, because i asked op talkin to a friend whom we once broke of because , and also that friend of his keeps treating me ...

Do men get put off a girl who is too open?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - guys - do you get turned off when a girl is too open? ...

I like him but I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm new to the whole asking for help thing. I usually help others and don't ask for help. But, There is this boy (I'll call him Bob), I know he likes me because he has told me and last year he had asked me to be his girlfriend. ...

Should I stay with him for the sake of our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been w/ my "fiance" for 5 years, with our son 3 yrs, he wants to marry me but he has cheated several times,even while and after pregnant he'd continued I've left him, kicked him out but because of our son we kept trying to work it out, I ...

Is there a chance he will change his mind get back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex in May. By mid of June, he starts to contact me again. At first it was about some important things then later he started asking me personal questions like if I have a new boyfriend and other stuff about my family and frien...

We've broken up, he's sent me a cryptic email, what do I make of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i need to know how to respond to an email from my boyfriend of two years. we broke up last week. for the past few months we have been riding the breakup/cant live without you roller coster. this past week, i flipped out and completely went ...

We broke up, I told him I needed space, but now I want him back, how do I know how he feels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I broke up with my bf a few months ago. We stayed friends in the interim. I just sent him a "would you consider getting back together" letter. I told him to take his time to think about it. I think I was so subtle in the letter that I never ...

I've always dated me who treated me badly -- this guy might be different. Have I messed it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi! I am a typical girl who has always dated men who treated me badly. For some reason, I found jerks attractive. I recently met a man who seems nothing like the jerks I previously have met, he is mature, direct, kind, secure within himself, and ...

Does this prove women want what they can't have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - ok so I met this girl over the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone yet she found me. we've talked and have been texting and talkin for a couple months now. I would have never thought if meet a girl over the internet and fall in love. but I did. ...

Help! He said he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and everything was going great untill he told me that he doesnt know if he wants to be in a relationship. he use to tell me that he loves me but he said that he really likes me. he said that he ...

Opinions needed. Should we stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been living together for a while now and we just broke up. I screwed up in the past while out with my friends(not cheated or anything)and lied about it. So we came to an agreement that to gain her trust back I wou...

Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm? My lover and I have been together for 4 years and previous to this I was married for 15 years and I have never experienced an orgasm during sex but I cum so quickly with my toy. What do you think is ...

My boyfriend's gambling problem...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and till now things have been pretty good, we've had our ups and downs like any other couple but we have been good together. The only thing that we tend to argue about if that he likes to gamble. ...