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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Are these guys playing games with me? I don't know who to trust!

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29 July 2009 (F - help! two months ago i met a guy X. he grew massively on to me. i considered him as family thats how close we were. we had sex and everything. then he introduced me to his mate Y. i started seein Y cuz X left for holiday to sort out his LDR. X kept ...

Advice on helping my boyfriend quit smoking.

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29 July 2009 (F - My boyfriend's 16 and he's been smoking since he was about 13 (bad crowds) and because of how much I am against the idea and the problems it's causing between us he's determind to try and quit with some help. He has tried in the past but not ...

My mum doesn't think that we make a good couple!

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29 July 2009 (F - So I was talking to my mum eariler and I asked if she thought me and my boyfriend made a good couple, just for something to say....and she looked abit shifty, and said no, not really. I was kind of shocked - we've been going out for about 10 month...

Why does he keep pushing me away for other girls when we get on so well?!

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29 July 2009 (F - I really like this guy who I am friends with but hes not interested in me. Ive twice slept with him in the past but he made it clear he did not want a relationship so I left it at that but I stayed friends with him as we got on so well. Ive noticed ...

Should I say goodbye... or should I stay?

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29 July 2009 (F - In three more days my boyfriend and I are going to be together for one year, we have been living together for about 11 months now and I have a 2 1/2 year old child that is not his. When we first got together we were so happy but here lately there ...

I am phobic about my girlfriend leaving me... help!

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29 July 2009 (? - I am really scared of losing my girlfriend i really really love her this fear is really eating me up and causing it to become a belief it really hurts me... she has given me her word but it really still hurts and im dead scared... Can you please t...

Money conflict

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29 July 2009 (F - Me and my boyfriend want to move in together within the next few years. We had started saving, but he lost his job several months ago and has just been working every now and again, not regular work. He still goes out every weekend and is in his ...

Does it sound like we will have ongoing issues or can we overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

29 July 2009 (F - Dear Cupid I started seeing a man approx 16 months ago. It started off casual neither of us was looking for a relationship. After 5 mths he decided to tell me that he had a girlfriend back in his country (El Salvador) and wanted to come clean wi...

What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years?

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29 July 2009 (F - What is the easiest way to dump someone you've been with for over two years? I've tried before but I hate making people feel bad. You have no idea what it does to me. But I have to do it, I'm miserable. I do love him, but it's just not the same ...

Is a clitoral orgasm easy to experience?

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29 July 2009 (F - I am 22 years old and have a partner. I have had one clitoral orgasm with a vibrator but never with my partner. I'm kinda scared to have another one, will it get easier to experience... a clitoral orgasm? Also, I'm not sure if I have had a gspot...

He doesn't believe I would NEVER cheat on him. How can I prove this to him?

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29 July 2009 (F - I've been a relationship for 5 years now. We've been through a lot together. I stay at his house almost every day even though I have my own place. A few days ago I received a call from a male friend I did not answer. My boyfriend's friend made a ...

She broke my heart before, and now she seems to be acting the same way again!

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29 July 2009 (M - hey, basically, i really like this girl, i have liked her for about a year, and we acted like a relationship. (we went out together kissed had sex blah blah blah) but it wasn't official, and when i asked her about being together she kept saying i...

How slow is too slow?

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29 July 2009 (F - My ex is giving me every indication that he wants to get back together even talking about why we split up...even to the point of saying people don't agree on everything. However he seems to be taking things very slowly. He is very emotional and ...

I'm so confused by this girl, I need advice!

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29 July 2009 (M - Girls... OK, Let me give you a brief understanding of my background in dating. Im 14, 15 in a few days and I have never been on a date, Never asked a girl out and now im interested in them, they are very confusing. So, I have no experience yet...

I initiated things but now I want to back out! How do I tell her?

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29 July 2009 (M - Hi, there's this girl that I've known for about a year now. I've had feelings for her but she didn't know so we were just friends. Recently, I asked her out on a date and she said 'yes' and I thought everything was gonna be perfect. But I realised ...

Should I forget him or give him a second chance if he comes back to me?

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29 July 2009 (F - I went out with this boy last year for about a week but then I ended it because I didn't want my heart broken. I still had feelings for him...we didn't talk for a couple of months.. then he started going out with this girl and I kind of got ...

I don't know who to breakup with because I love them both!

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29 July 2009 (F - i love 2 boys and they love me too. ive been going out with one of them for three months me and him dont get along, he says he loves me but i dont think so and the other one its been 5 weeks. the first one i went out with his brother cousin and his ...

My flirting has given a few guys the wrong impression, what do to?

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29 July 2009 (F - For various reasons, right now I'm very happy being single and dating here and there. But it turns out that me having a boyfriend is the only thing stopping a lot of guys I know from letting their imaginations run wild. As a few of my girlfriends ...

Dating again after ending a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

29 July 2009 (F - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years two days ago. He had been extremely controlling and our relationship was very rocky. I was at the point where I had completely changed for him and could not even be myself around him because he ...

I still love her..but does she love me?

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29 July 2009 (M - hi i am in a separation with my wife we have 2 kids ,one she had with another guy before me but i have been there since her birth. i love them and i still love her. we have broke up before and in a matter a days she has found someone to date. one of ...

Seeing the ex again, just brought back all of my feelings for him...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

29 July 2009 (F - We parted on my part bad terms(I felted he was dishonest to me and I think he couldn`t handle his feelings for me)I seen him for the first time in 5 months should I just leave will enough alone? I really liked him. I don`t think he will every get in ...

What is she thinking? What am I thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

29 July 2009 (M - I didn't think I would ever end up online asking people about relationship advice, but I can't think clearly anymore so help me out. I've got this pseudo friend whom I have taken to the prom and still hang out on a weekly basis with couple other ...

Am I wasting my time waiting for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

29 July 2009 (F - Hey. I like this guy named brian simmons and he's nineteen years old now, and I'm gonna sixteen in october. I've liked him since I was eleven years old and he was just fifteen. I've sat back and watched him go in and out of relationships for the ...

I don't understand what's going on with us now. Help!

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29 July 2009 (M - Hi, I am a 27 year old male and madly in love with 28+ years old dreamgirl of mine. She really was my dream girl..beautiful...Infact she is divorced and i am never married...she was very depressed when going through this and i was her new friend.....

Does this make me look desperate?

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29 July 2009 (F - I was seeing this guy for a couple of months until a couple of weeks ago when he stopped calling. I sent him a text a few days later, he replied, I replied and that was it until just now when he called me and asked me to come to lunch with him and ...

Maybe we focused too heavily on the relationship and not our friendship? What should I do?

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29 July 2009 (M - There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up...

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