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Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry?

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Question - (2 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry? I plan on talking to him today about how he makes me feel sometimes like he doesn't care and that he needs to show that he loves me and be more affectionate towards me. My boyfriend is depressed and I understand that his anti depressants make him feel emotionless but it's really starting to get to me and make me feel really sad and rejected by a person that I truly love and care about and I'm really scared of losing him.

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A female reader, questionable2009 New Zealand +, writes (10 August 2009):

know how you feel. and i was dumped because i was annoyed at him for being like this and didnt understand which annoyed him... so my advice is to tell him, hear what he says and if it continues be careful how you react so you dont end up dumped like me!! (the now ex b/f has depression also)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

I'd say it is normal to be feeling the way you are. If he wasn't depressed and on anti depressants I would thing there is something wrong in this relationship because he should make you feel special and loved.

I think a talk with him is a good idea, maybe he does not realise his anti depressants are having such a strong affect on his behaviour towards you. I do question whether these anti depressants are doing more harm than good, but this is something he needs to sort out.

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