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writes:I met a man two months ago online. On our first meeting, I didn't see him as my type (looks and views). But, he had something that drew me in. With every date, I grew more fond of him. He seemed loving, sweet and treated my like a princess. We practically saw each other 2-3 times a week; text and called each other all the time. Two weeks ago, I showed my willingness to take it to the next level and become sexually intimate. He was didn't seem very hard, but we managed. The sex was very quick; with minimal foreplay. Actually, he wasn't great in the foreplay department either. So, I figured he was nervous, and he will get better. Our second time, he didn't get hard at all! I was upset, and I started asking questions. He's been taking blood pressure medicine, which has it's dose of side-effect on a man's sexuality. Then we tried for the third time, and again nothing. I asked about his previous relationships/marriages, and he grew silent. He's been taking blood pressure medicine since his 20s. He's my age 46! I suggested a lifestyle change of a better diet, as he could lose 20 pounds; cardio workout (he only plays golf) and perhaps yoga. He brushed off alternative remedies in place of his medication. Anyway, I noticed that we hadn't talked for a couple of days. I called him and left a message. He didn't call back. I didn't suspect anything so I left him a loving text message. He sends me a message that he needs time to mend his ego. That this isn't about me, and he would need some time. The first time we had sex, he was so loving and happy that he asked if we could take our profiles down. I agreed. Now, I have no idea what is happening here. I truly like him, and I wanted help him, but I'm not sure if he has dumped me. Yesterday, I sent him an email to be upfront with me about his thoughts. No response yet!Is he done with me? Even though his profile is not up, I can tell that he's been active. Is he out dating? Was it me?
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reader, luistmw  +, writes (3 August 2009):
it seems he does not really aprecciate you.you should start dating other persons
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