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Seeing a younger guy who I want to be exclusive with but I think he's confused!

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Question - (13 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hia,

Im 23 I got been seeing this guy on the quiet for over a month now. He is 20.

He apprached me on facebook to meet up. I knew him from a club i am a member of and we just hit it off rly. But what i wasnt aware of is he has a girlfriend 300 miles away.

I am completely different to her.

everytime i ask him "what about sarah?" he just gets moody and says " dunno what happening with her!" and clams up.

I rly like him, we have been out on many dates but i find i am kept very secret by him and i hate having to hide the way i feel if people we know are around.

Last night we slept together, it was good and he was lovely with me.

I dont know whats going on because since lastnight i havent heard from him and I hope sincerely i havent been used.

He's the one who has done the running after me and started all of this. and to be honest i hate it.

Can you tell me what you think is happening?

is he confused? or is he just using me?

I dont know what to think!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009):

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I dont want to be with someone attached at all!!!!

I have told him this again and again and i just get nowhere!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009):

Sorry Lady it sounds like you are being played.

This guy is having his cake and eating it.

Also he has a girlfriend. Let me ask you why would you ever want to be with a guy who is attached, it doesnt matter whether he is Ben Affleck if he will cheat on her for you, he will cheat on you for someone else. That is the truth, he is a dog, now kick him in the ass and go out and find a nice guy.

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