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writes:hey guys im new so dont know if this is the right place to put this but yeahthis is a huge story but i can shorten it...basically went on a few dates with this girl like coffee etc, then she met up wth her ex on his birthday, shes crazy about him still i know it (hes a control freak), and then me and her kissed a lot and spoke about it, next day she felt bad for him and went back to being crazy about him...me and her just click we are like perfect but shes still hung on this guydo i give up with hope of getting her?thanks all
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Maybe try and be a supportive friend to her? If you can that is. It can be hard to break away fully from a control freak - I know because I just broke up with one at the end of last year. It took me a few months of seeing a perfect-for-me new guy with no pressure for me to get over him. Does she know he's a control freak? Did he break up with her? These answers will affect how you should go from here.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (13 August 2009):
 To put it simply - move on! She clearly has no intention of moving on from her ex any time soon so you need to just put an end to this and leave her to it!
Getting involved with a girl who is still hung up on an ex will always end in disaster - you will be the one that gets hurt. If there are still unresolved feelings between the two of them then no mater how well you and her get along, she will never choose you over him. Whatever they have going on needs to be sorted out and she will need some time to move on, so you are just going to have to let this one go I'm afraid!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, rosie-rouge +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Hey,
Well I think if she's worth it, then you should go for it and wait for her.
But to be honest, all a girl needs is a good close friend that she can count on. When it goes wrong in that relationship, you should be there for her. Hopefully it will go from there.
Good luck,
Rosie-Rouge
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Dude I feel your pain.
Im in the same boat at the moment , with a girl I really like but who hasnt moved on from her ex. I dont know if Im doing the right thing either, we splt up because of it.
She knows that i liked her and liked spending time with her. She knows i understand that she isnt ready to move on and thats it. im moving on with my life trying not to think about her.
Man that is hard but you cant make someone love you. And thats the position you find yourself in, she cant have both of ye and until she makes a decision she shouldnt have you because you shouldnt be strung along and you shouldnt allow yourself to be.
My advice give her the choice life with you but without him, or life withoutyou.
It may be painful but youll feel stronger for it.
Good luck man, it aint easy.
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