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Was he just using me?

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Question - (25 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I've been seeing this guy for 4 months and we had sex and I got worried coz I didn't want to get used so I asked him if he was using me and he said no, I really do like you and I would never use you, so we were having sex for a while and then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. I thought he was just really busy but then the other day I saw him kissing another girl and I felt like a right idiot but didn't want to say anything. Do you think I should just get on with my life or should I say something to him about him using me help me plzzzzzz

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

Get on with your life and remember "we don't make mistakes. We just have learnings". (quote by Anne Wilson Schaef)

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (25 October 2008):

rcn agony auntGet on with your life. About using someone, you need to remain clear with what you're looking for. It two people are just looking for sex, then are they using the other one? If you're looking for a real relationship, make sure the person you're with is seeking the same.

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A female reader, AceGirl777 United States +, writes (25 October 2008):

It sounds like he was using you. Sorry hun! You can talk to him if you want and tell him how you feel and that you saw him with another girl but dont fall for if it he wants you back! You should get on with your life he sounds like a loser and you only deserve the best!

Much love and good luck!

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