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Should I ask her out again or just stay close friends?

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Question - (28 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2009)
A male South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, there's this girl that I liked ever since school began. Ever since the very first da I met her. I got to know her a little bit and thennwe got closer and closer until the school dance came up then I asked her to the dance. It took some time for her before she actually said yes.

A night after the dance, we got together and became more than friends and went out. We went on a date, then she told me she wasn't ready for us to be together because it feels awkward... I think it was my fault because all we did was walk around and talk...........boring much. She said she needed some time. I respected that and now it's been a month and I'm still crazy over her...I don't know if I should ask her out again...or just stay close friends

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A male reader, franklydammy Nigeria +, writes (17 February 2009):

franklydammy agony auntI think you dont have a problem, what you really need to do first is to try and understand the girl, know what she wants in a friend and see if you can give her. If your instincts tell you to give her more time, fine. But first learn how to understand her, know what she likes talking about so that communication we go on smoothly. Then if there is improvement in your interaction, you can ask her out, but dont forget, LEARN TO UNDERSTAND HER FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING.

Wish to know how things turn out.

Best of lucks.

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