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writes:I have problem, I starting to fall for this dude, but he is young, its a 3 years differents n age. I know for sure that he liks me as well. But Im payin hard to get, b/c his so young. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, HopelessRomantic2010 +, writes (3 December 2008):
Hii...I was in the same situation with my boyfriend before we got together. He's thirteen, and I just turned seventeen. We became great friends the very first day we met, and soon, my cousin, who is his age, was running up to me with news that he liked me as more than a friend. This made me pretty happy, as I had been starting to fall for him, too. He was completely willing to start a romantic relationship, but I was a little slow to make that decision. At that time, the age difference seemed like so much more than it really is. I was afraid of what everyone would say and afraid of the fact that we might not be able to really understand each other and all that. But then, I started concentrating more on how much fun we had together and how much we liked each other and all of the positive things like that, and everything else seemed completely trivial. I agreed to give romance a try, and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. We've been together for a little over a month now, and everything is going great.My point is, if you like him, go for it! I know that it may seem impossible or too hard right now, but it's totally worth it in the end. I don't know if you're religious, but if you are, I suggest praying about it--that's really the best thing you can do. If God wants you to be with him, then He will make it happen. Good luck!!!~SarSar~
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (28 November 2008):
 How old are you and how old is he? I agree with the previous answer, if he's 15 and you're 18, then obviously now is not the time to have a relationship with him. But if you're 21 and he's 18 then i don't see a problem.
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