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male
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41-50,
*lliew
writes:Is there anything I can do/say in order to get my girlfriend back?Last week i got a bit down and kept my girlfriend at arms length,she was supposed to be going away for the weekend and i felt that i would get better when she got back.My mother died two months ago,my girlfriend and i only met three months ago. I dont think she understands when i get a bit down.I've opted for an anti anxiety tablet to help me.She lost her temper with me because i wouldnt see her last friday nite after she changed her plans,I was feeling very low and should have told her.She snapped on the phone last Saturday and ended our relationship, she tells me 2day via text that she is no longer angry with me and wants to move on. she basically doesnt want to be in a situation where she gets so wound up that she loses her temper with me. I have to call to her house next week to get my stuff,i feel her and me will end up talking if only to smooth out the breakup. If I went by the text i'd say she's determined that we wont work out. i'm willing to work at it. Basically i've told her via text that i'm sorry and what i've done wrong but i'm afraid to ring her as she has friends down for the weekend and i dont want to annoy her further and drive her away for good.Any help or ideas would be good
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reader, olliew +, writes (29 November 2008):
olliew is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the prompt response,she's 37,i'm 33. The self help books would say take the break up on the chin,dont argue or try to convince otherwise and move on and let things cool off.I want to explain myself but i dont know if she wants to hear it,i dont think i realised how much this would affect me,she got really angry so perhaps its a sign she cares for me too but she'd never admit it. I cant help thinking she is seeing the years go by and may want a totally centred self confident guy. Unfortunately thats not me, not at the moment anyway
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reader, 48years  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Honey, some women like to play hard to get. If she's right for you, she won't get annoyed when you stop by with flowers. If she gets annoyed-move on and find someone nicer. The pool of available women gets bigger for men as they mature. Women get sweeter as they get older because the competition is stronger. Think about it...you could be wasting time on a high maintenance girl when you could be with someone who really wants to hear from you! I'm an old married lady and I've seen it all---when it's right, it's right all the way and in every way.
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