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writes:I have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now, we get along great. we are on our fifth date now, we have kissed quite a bit, but nothing more than that. She has been very busy studying for her exam, so I haven't seen her in about a week. Anyway, she said she was looking forward to seeing me on Monday night. I replied back saying that I couldn't wait to see her and that I miss her. I am thinking that was a mistake because all I got back was "yeah, we will have a lot of fun" she didn't say she missed me! Should I be alarmed by this?? She did say she didn't want to rush into anything, but I thought that was pretty innocent. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (12 November 2008):
 It's hard to interpret the feeling of a text message. Her message sounds pretty light and flirty to me. I wouldn't be alarmed that she didn't say she missed you directly. I'm sure she does.
Your relationship is so new!! Don't worry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): I don't think you should be alarmed at all. You haven't been seeing eachother for very long at all - she might not want to show her feelings or open up to you right away. Plus exams can be stressful - she migt have a lot on her mind.
Just relax, and be positive. And, texts can be misleading - if she said what she did on that text message to you over the phone after you said you missed her, you could interpret that in a completely different way... I mean 'having fun' can mean many things... she might want to take this relationship further than kissing! ;-)
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 she is probably thinking aww thats so cute but maybe she's unable to tell you she misses you cause she wants to play it kool. ur in for a lot of fun so maybe she means she's guna show you how much she missed you.
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