A
male
age
36-40,
*urvy
writes:Hey everyone, well the problem is that I have known this girl for a good bit and we've been the best of friends and I have been wanting to take it to the next level and have a relationship with her. The problem is she is afraid to fall in love!! It all started last month when I talked to her about having a relationship. She shot me down and told me she did not have feelings for me that way. Well, I know I shouldn't have done this, but I ignored her for about a month or so. Following the month(s) she texts me and tells me she is sorry she lied and she tells me she actually really liked me.Things have gone downhill though, we have gotten drunk and she has ended up making out with guys, which are my friends and she is and has been telling me she is sorry and all. I find it hard to forgive her, but I do end up doing so. We had a talk today about a relationship again and she tells me the ultimate reason is that she is afraid to FALL IN LOVE, I really like this girl and I would really appreciate if someone could help me out on what I should say or do because I honestly am in a bind right now.
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reader, kurvy +, writes (12 November 2008):
kurvy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would also like to add she has NEVER had a serious relationship!
And this would be her first serious relationship!
Thanks to those who help!
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reader, rejuven8  +, writes (12 November 2008):
Give her all the time and support she needs. Thats all you can do, eventually she will fall deeply in love with you! If she really likes you, like she said, it's bound to happen sooner or later! Just don't get pushy, but in the same breath, remind her constantly (without pissing her of) that you really want this to go to the next level.
Good luck!
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