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*_luv_michael
writes:I have this friend who is really mad at me right now. It all started last year when she was datin this guy. they only went out for a week and then she broke up with him. She says she broke up with him because he was a year younger and people were teasing her, but she really broke up with him for me, cuz i liked him. We've now been going out for 8 months, and I thought she had gotten over him, but according to a lot of my other friends, she is spreading rumors that I stole her bf, and now she won't even talk to me! What should i do??
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reader, i_luv_michael +, writes (5 December 2008):
i_luv_michael is verified as being by the original poster of the question #1- I am not 10 - 12, i just picked a random age, i didn't know it would show, i'm really 15.
#2- the rumors JUST started, so i have a reason to be mad
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): your aged 10-12!
when i was 10-12 i still played tag with guys!
let the boy-girls dramas come at 13+ silly people
enjoy your innocent youthful lives!
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): boyfriends cant be stolen, because we, choose who we want to, your lucky the guy dosen't say "ah screw it" and walk out on you all.
youe age grouping is 10-12 you shouldnt even be worrying about dateing.
but heres advice anyways.
walk up to her to her face ask about it, make sure your in front of everyone and make sure they hear and notice, and say thats she knows its not true so on so on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Ask her why she is doing what she is doing, even if she won't talk to you. If you must, get a friend to ask for you. No reason ~11 year olds should be so vile to each other. Especially over a matter like this. She agreed to break up with him.
Also, what good will the rumors do 8 months afterwards? Almost sounds like a detail is being left out.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Sounds like she didn't know what she was doing. She should've kept him. It's like someone saying no no you have such and such or so and so, and then later regretting their decision and becoming jealous.
She probably sees you two together at eight months, and realizes what she could've had, but let go.
I would say confront her about this, but if she won't even talk to you, I don't see how that's gonna help.
You will hear this many times concerning this situation: If she is treating you this way, then she is not your real friend. However, I have sympathy for this girl, because she gave up someone really important to her to make you happy, so just ignore the rumors. Don't take them to close to heart. They are the symptoms of someone going through a lot of pain.
How long did she know him? Because they only dated a week. How long has she liked him? All of this factors into it, because she wouldn't be making such a big fuss if she didn't really like him. At eight months into this relationship, I say it's too late to give him back.
If she won't talk to you, just ignore her behavior, get a new friend, and wait for her to come to you, because she is the one who has to admit what is bothering her.
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