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30-35,
*ixx08
writes:I've met this girl on the first week of our semester. Everyday, when we're at the school, she really caughts my attention. She's a simple girl, my ideal girl. As time pass by, we had a chance to talk with each other, have a lunch together and etc. One day we had a simple chat, she asks me I had a girlfriend then I said that I don't had a girlfriend, I think she doubts, but it's really true. Then I also asked her if she had a boyfriend and replied that she haven't. During our chit-chat she told me that she wants a boyfriends who's older than her, then i felt that I don't have a chance, she's months older than me. Then she ask if what want, older or younger? i said, i really don't care about the age. I'm really falling in love with her, she's even in my dreams,my prayers and my inspiration. I felt that my efforts is not being appreciated. Everyday, I'm sending her a message saying "Good Morning, Take Care, Good Night, Eat Well and ETC".Hmm. What do you think? Do I have a chance? Would I be able to stop being a hopeless romantic? I've done many things. Sometimes I treat her, walk with her and accompany her to her house. Do I lack in anything? If yes, where/what do I lack? Reply to this Question
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reader, nixx08 +, writes (5 December 2008):
nixx08 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@k_c, thanks for your message, it's just I'm afraid of being rejected since it's my first time. I hope that I have a chance on her. I'm ready to do everything for her, it's not that I'm too desperate but it's that I love her, I'm happy being around with her. I want to see her smiles/laughs with my lousy jokes. I want to be with her side everytime when she feels lonely.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Dont doubt yourself so much! You sound like a a lovely guy so dont start questioning yourself over a girl!It sounds like you are doing everything you can to show her you care about her and really like her and thats all you can do. With her saying she wants an older man, that is a very strange thing for her to say to a friend she has only recently met, maybe she is trying to test you to see if you really are interested in her?The best thing you can do is be yourself and hope that she sees you for what you are. Tell her how you feel about her over dinner or after a movie, she might even feel the same! If not then well she is missing out on a great guy and its her loss, not yours!If she lets you walk her home, asks whether or not you have a girlfriend etc then it sounds like you do have a chance, and if she doesnt feel the same well then she probably has led you on a bit.Good Luck!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (4 December 2008):
tell her how you feel
the chance is there, have dated guys whom l thought would never date coz of age, weight, etc.........l couldn't control the heart
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