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*limking
writes:H, i'm in a kinda weird situation and i need ur opinion on what i should do. we've been friends since high school and now we go to the same college. we kinda have a good thing going on for us. we kissed one time and we've been hanging out lots. we actually planned to go on a date right after our first semester exams. it happened that she told one of my friends that we're dating and i told her straight up that we're not dating yet and that we're still friends. i didn't mean to hurt her in any way, cos i really do love her. i just said it bcos thats what i feel. she freaked out. even though i think i'm right, i still took the blame and i apologised to her. but she wont listen to me. now, she wants to remain as friends. i really do like her and i want her as my gurl. No doubts, i know she likes me. i really dont know exactly what she's thinking tell me, was i wrong when i said that, and what should i do now. thanks for reading, pls answer Reply to this Question
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reader, slimking +, writes (4 December 2008):
slimking is verified as being by the original poster of the questioniight man, thanks. I'll keep everything cool and try to xplain myself and tell her how i truly feel for her... it just sucks man. it really does. dont get urself into shit with ur gurl.
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reader, slimking +, writes (4 December 2008):
slimking is verified as being by the original poster of the questioniight, thanks. at first, i didnt see any fault in what i said, but now i do. and i've apologized, she knows i'm sorry. but u know what, i have this ridiculously strong feeling that she's coming back. this is because we were in love. it was obvious. we had a good thing going on until i fucked up. do u think she should take it to this extent if she actually loved me.
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reader, slimking +, writes (4 December 2008):
slimking is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot, i appreciate ur gestures. but the thing is that i tried my best to explain to her. she wont listen to me. she listens to her friends. and when i told her not to listen to them anymore, she made it clear to me that yeah, she has to listen to them bcos they look out for her best interest.. and another question is: if she loves me like she claims, do u think she would freak out like that??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Tell her exactly what you just told us! And beg for her forgiveness. You do have one thing in your favor...she still wants to be your friend! give it some time and try again. But next time think before you speak. As women we are very sensitive about things like this!
Good Luck!
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reader, doafreak  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Tell her how you truely feel. shell understand, if she wants it and so do you things will work out. good luck man
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Just explain to her that it was a misunderstanding, that you didn't mean anything by it, you just didn't want to have rumors started before you knew whether she was actually your girlfriend.
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