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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hi how do i get a boyfreind when you overweight and shy and very low self estreem.but i am always getting by the guys the likes who always some one elea but never me.i am 30 yaers old,never had boyfreind once in my life and never even experence my kiss.its sound sad doesn,t it ,
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reader, Sausha  +, writes (4 December 2008):
Sounds cliche I'm sure but you're never gonna attract a man until you're happy with youself. If it's you're weight, work out, I personally had low self-esteem before when I was overweight and I just sucked it up and pushed myself to work out. It was hard at first but after awhile it pays off which just fuels you more. I lost 40 pounds and I'm still working at it. Guys want a confident woman who has it together. Find what you want in life and go get it, don't wait for things to come to you because they typically won't. The key to grabbing a guys attention is having this aura of self-confidence around you. If they see that you think you're something special, they will come to see it to:)
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