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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm at a real loss here -- My fiance' and boyfriend of the past 6 years has said he'd like to break off our wedding. We currently live together, and have for the majority of our 6 year relationship. Last December, seemed like the make or break moment in our relationship. We decided to keep going, and so he proposed. He's just started a new job, and with that came new friends. The past few weeks have been a constant struggle just to spend some quality time together -- now he's unsatisfied if he's not drunk or high, the only upside to it all is that the sex has been great. He proposed, that we break off the engagement and he move out. But that we still continue dating!? He said he loves me, but can never see himself getting married or living with anyone for a while and that he wants to remain close but have an opportunity to do some soul searching and find out what it's like to be alone. What can I do? I feel so horrible inside and I can't even imagine my life without him by my side. I've lived on my own since I was 17, shortly after that is when we moved in together. Have we really moved too fast? Did we miss out on a key step of our lives together? How do I know this will last? My biggest fear is that I've spent the last 6 years of my life with a person who no longer understands me. Hope you can help.
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