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reader, lah mouw  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 While it's great for you to be cautious about that stuff. I don't think you should be asking us. ASK HER! plain and simple. ;]
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reader, eltapatio +, writes (6 December 2008):
ima vegi too. and i dont mind. i just say "do u want to know WHY i dont eat meat? *insert evil smile* lol yea but i dont mind
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Why not use it as an opportunity to eat a more healthy diet? She probably feels that meat and dairy consumption causes a lot of suffering to animals. I would educate myself to see where she is coming from. Here is a video to get you started: http://meat.orgA good book to read on the subject is Peter Singer's "Animal Liberation".
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Some vegans would hate this and others wouldn't mind so your best bet is to ask her.
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reader, 1littleduck  +, writes (4 December 2008):
Hi, Yes I would say go ahead and eat what you want, I am sure she would not want you to change just because of her.
It always strikes me as odd though as most people who call them selves vegans and will not eat anything from animals still wear leather either with it being shoes, coats belts or even make-up as some of this is also from animals, so discuss it with her and see just how strong she feels about it.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (4 December 2008):
Its something that you are going to have to ask her chances are she is fine with it. If she is not you might want to look at if you can spend forever with her and not eat meat.
Good luck
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Absolutely. If she is able to eat foods in front of you without you judging her, then you should be able to do the same with her. If you are still unsure, just ask.
Hope this helps,
Amanda
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): In this case it would be best to ask her how she feels about you eating meat. Some vegans are ok with it and other vegans will basically accuse you of murdering that animal to eat its flesh.
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