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writes:hi. Okay so my questions is this- Up on til two days ago my ex-boyfriend has been telling my best friends that he loves me and cant get over me. Then yesterday he calls my best-friend and tell her that he met a girl at one of his friends houses and they began to make out. This does not bother me cuz i have moved on. But what bothers me that the girl looks exactly like me black curly hair and green eyes and fair skin. (some difference but could pass for at least being related.) is this weird or is it just me crazy. plz see if you can help.
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reader, Smoky eyes  +, writes (15 May 2012):
You are not crazy my ex has dated atleast 2 girls that looks like me even his current girlfriend looks like me and all this since our breakup,i personaly think that ur ex just subtituted u with her,since he claimed to love u,not only that but lets not forget that she could be a rebound 2
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): My mother-in-law to be called me by fiances exs name! When I demanded to see her picture I was devastated to see I was a replacement of his special one! It can't be easy for the new girl. I think you should be flattered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Relax. Surprisingly so many of my past girlfriends and now even my current wife seem to have the same features. This isn't a freaky schizm in the universe. It just means you're attracted to a certain type of girl. I once had a friend assume I couldn't get over a past girlfriend when a new girl I was dating looked similar to her. But I wasn't, she just fit the bill of what I like in a woman.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 I think this happens a lot. My ex husband now lives with a woman who could be my double. People are normally attracted to a certain type. Don't let it bother you and be flattered that he found you so attractive he looked for another woman almost as good looking as you. If you are over him that's great but if you want him back refrain from making any bitchy comments when you see them together and just be a nice person to them generally.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (3 December 2008):
 I'm sure you aren't crazy. If he found you physically attractive (and it sounds like he did), it makes sense that he would look for similar characteristics in other girls, or be attracted to girls who look similar. If he misses you enough, it's quite possible that he was literally looking for a replacement version of you. However, it's pretty hard to believe that he was sincere about loving you if two days later he has moved on to someone else. True love takes far longer than that to forget, or no one would ever ask how to get over a broken heart ;)
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