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writes:For those who like someone:If I like a girl how do I tell the difference between she enjoying the chase and her simply not interested in me?1) If she likes the chase would it be safe to say that if she is talking to me when she wants in her time that. She may be interested when she gets to know me more?2) If she's not Interested in me at all she will just completley ignore me with no communication?Are these a fair explanation? Reply to this Question
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 Being interested is only the first step. You can't know the future. Just see if she wants to spend some time with you doing something fun and take it step by step.
Love is a process. Have fun! Either which way you need to practice having confidence so go ahead and chase her, you might learn a lot of fun lessons!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Your answer for if she is enjoying the chase is potentially accurate, girls like to feel pretty, adored, acknowledged, etc. and those are all things we feel when being chased, so yes in time we may be interested in a relationship as we get to know you. Just make sure while you are doing the chasing you are being honest and true to yourself and the person you really are inside, not just doing what we like to "get the girl"As for if she is just not interested, it is hard to generalize this because we are all different. Sometimes yes we'll just ignore you with no communication, but sometimes we chat with you and are friendly with you because we enjoy your friendship but aren't seeking anything more than. Be careful in this area, I being female admit fully that sometimes we are hard to read. when all else fails be honest... own up to your feelings and ask where we stand.Good luck, I hope this helps.
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reader, TimLSY +, writes (3 December 2008):
1) I'll say yes. But it might just be as a person, not necessarily romantic. Either way, it's worth a try, at least you gain a friend.2) Not necessarily true either...if she's not someone close already like a friend or something, it might be that she has noticed that you have interest in her and is weighing her strategies how to deal with it. On the other hand, it also might be the case that she really is not interested in you at all...So answers are not clear for both questions, everyone and every situation is different, you'll just have to figure out on your own...but if you guys have never been really close before, I'll say give it a shot, nothing to lose! Even if you get rejected, it's better than living wondering "what if..."
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