A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:About two weeks ago I started dating a really nice guy. Him and his girlfriend had broken up the day before (bad idea I know). He has become very distant lately and whenever we're together his hands wonder directly to a certain part of my body. My sister told me that he is sex obsessed and when I wenton her facebook profile I saw that she had a convo with his ex. His ex told her that he is sex obsessed but that i deserve all the pain I am getting from this relationship. She is telling people at my school that she is going to kill me and she leaves me rude messages on facebook. any help would be dearly appreciated!
View related questions:
facebook, his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Honeygirl +, writes (3 December 2008):
 Sweetie, sounds like the ex is really upset that he has met someone so soon after their break-up, hence the nasty comments - Ignore them!! Since you have only been with this guy for 2 weeks, tell him to respect your wishes as you do not want to get sexual with him yet. If the ex is lying and he is not obsessed with sex, then he will wait until you are ready!
Honeygirl
A
female
reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 She could be right, or she could just be jealous of your relationship. Remember we are not all the same are we, so we react differently to different relationships. My advise would be to just ignore her, eventually she will move on. As for him though, what male that age isnt obsessed with sex. But you dont have to give in do you, not if you dont want to. Anyway you have only been with him 2 weeks, so tell him to have a little respect and he will have to wait until your ready.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Firstly, ignore the ex. I imagine she's rather bitter, but I doubt she'll kill you.Secondly, you need to assess the situation with your bf. Why did you guys get together? Do you think you're a rebound/being used?
...............................
|
