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writes:something really weird has happened. i became friends with this girl for just over a year ago. we went to different colleges yet still we started speaking quite alot. i never ever even thought about liking her. i didnt like her in anything more than a friend, i didnt find her attractive, nor did she. we both used to tell each other every problem including our current relationships etc. and got extremely close. now we are at university, a few hours away from each other. we talk everyday on the phone and she admits she tells me everything and i am the closest to her. n jus recently i feel as if ive begun to like her. its really weird coz i would never of thought of that happening!!!she wants me to come see her uni, so im going to stay a few days round hers during xmas time.ive heard girls dont switch a friend to a boyfriend. is it to late to maybe to see what she feels about me??also she isnt the type to freak out and run a mile, shes really nice and we're so close if she said no she would laugh it off and give me a hug...but still its a little risk if u get what i mean.i would be ever so grateful if anybody could help me please. thank u so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm ur right. when i am in her company i will be able to tell what she kind of feels. maybe a few drinks will also help the situation :)
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (3 December 2008):
 Hi,
It sounds as if she is getting to like you better too does'nt it?
I would play this by ear go to the uni have a nice time and once your in her company you will have a better idea on how she is towards you whether it is friendly or more!
I have known friends who have went onto be g/f b/f after being friends so that works for some it is good she is the type that would laugh off any suggestion of you two being more than friends cause otherwise it might be awkward!
It is always a risk when your friendship develops into more because if one or the other does'nt feel as they should then it can mar some friendships i always feel the best thing to do is be in their company test the waters so to speak and play it by that hope this helped and good luck.
Ginalolabridga
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