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writes:does he love me?l have been dating this guy for 2 months,he doesn't call sometimes-its been two days nowwe recently got back together after l had ended things because he had come 3 hours late for an appointment.l said some horrible things to him that daywe got talking and he told me l really had hurt him.l asked for reconciliation and we got back together but he doesn't act like a man in love.is 2 months a short time to fall in love?l met him through a friend
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 Hi, I think you need to give it some time. I wouldn't push him right now to declare his feelings, you might push him away. If you've really hurt him, you need to give him time to get over it. It's only two months, and my answer is that yes, it's too soon to be sure that you're in love. You can have strong feelings, but you're still only getting to know each other and there may be some things that you'll find out about each other that won't be nice. Just as he found out that you can be really nasty when angered. So stop pushing too hard. Let him call you when he's ready. You can send him a letter or a card with an apology for your bad behavior if you'd like, but let him call you first.
I know that the first days of a new relationship are so filled with passion and hope that you might not be thinking clearly or logically. So let things move along on their own pace and try to keep a level head about this.
Good luck.
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (3 December 2008):
nokutenda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwill l not push him away by asking his feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): I believe that some people fall in love in an even shorter period of time. Most of us don't know how to express that love because we barely know the other person. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months now, and since about 2 months, I've felt that I love her. Been faithful to her 100%. Most guys don't have a clue of what a woman wants or is thinking, actually, no one knows ha ha. Trying talking to him and let him know how you feel, that's first and foremost, tell him you need him to be truthful, if love isn't there and if it is meant to be, then love will get to you both, ask him what he does when he doesn't call you, how he feels about you, and what he thinks of. I'd like to know that about my girlfriend right now :) So also let him know those things, give him a call saying you were thinking about him, saying I called because I miss you won't be necessary. I hope this helps a bit.
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