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writes:OK, so I really LIKED this guy. LIKED, not LIKE, LIKED. We used to be best friends, then he asked me out, and it pretty much went flat. We're still going out but we don't even act it. My friend and I were talking, and she asked how long we were dating, and I counted up the months, 8. I told, and she asked if he was a good kisser.Well, the truth is, he's never kissed me. Not once. And it's not like it's some moral thing or anything, because I would understand that. So I told her that he's never kissed me. She and my other friend were shocked beyond belief. And one said I should ask him to kiss me. Now, I don't do that. Unless that was what our bond was and just...NO. I'm not asking him to kiss me. No no no no no no no. We haven't held hands in ages, he's never broken up with me, and he hasn't flirted with anyone that I know of.But, he won't kiss me, and unless someone's life was at stake, I'm not asking him.But, lately, I have fallen for another guy. My boyfriend knows; he doesn't care. He's in all my classes except one. Anyways, I flirt with him, and he flirts with me. And I don't know why, but lately I've fallen in love with him. And I've done that once in my life.The problem: He's the class heartthrob. And I'm the class shorty. So, since he's tall, and I'm short, I doubt it's going to work. But I can't stop thinking about him. In class, my eyes are locked on him, and he's locked on me.But there's another boy, who's just an inch or two taller than me. (He's a guy, so, that's reasonable. I don't like thinking of dating someone shorter than me since I'm a girl) Anyways, we laugh and we're friends, but we're not as close as me and the other boy. But I've seen the way he looks at me.Anyways, I don't know what to do! My friends say me and the shorter guy would be the cutest couple EVER since he could put his arm around me and stuff and I wouldn't need a stool to give him a hug.I do really like that guy, I do! I liked him when I saw him, I liked him when I leaned against his locker and kicked it, and he watched me happily.But I really like the other guy so MUCH. I hate when the sparkle leaves his eye, and his voice is lowered.But I know we wouldn't work out! Well, since he's popular, I'm not. He's tall, I'm not. He's gorgeous. I look like a troll compared to him.And I love my boyfriend to; But like a brother. I've liked lots of my guy friends like brothers and my girl friends like sisters.So I don't know what to do! Who should I choose? Short one or tall one? And how can I break up with my boyfriend? Please help!
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reader, BethyBoo  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 be brief but not too brief otherwise it may look like you dont care for your bfs feelings. let him know you love him but as a best friend or brother and not as a boyfriend. as for which boy you should pick, thats really up to you. maybe you should wait it out and get to know each of them a bit better and see which one you like more or which one still likes you?hope it all works out xo
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