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writes:I am going shopping soon with a guy ive liked for a long time.. we are best friends but he always blows hot and cold on me..we dnt text, then we do.. he goes with other girls and i go with other guys but he always flirts with me and says im amazing any tips on how to subtly flirt with him while on this shopping trip? i dont wanna make this obvious to him ..as he may still see me as a best friend?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Enjoy the flirting and take it slowly. Take time to savor the romance for it could prove to be a stepping stone to something more. He ovbiously likes you and yet isn't quite ready to carry things further. Be careful not to come on too strong and let him pick up the slack in the flirting department. He's a guy and most of them prefer to be the one to make the moves. Just pay attention to his face and body language. Be careful not to let go too soon and scare him off! You will soon pick up on his feelings and learn to reciprocate your own in return.
Those shy smiles we ladies often give and the little things we do that will attract a man still work. Let yourself feel and act naturally without pressures or expectations. Suggest something he might like to buy in the shopping spree. That will focus his attention on you without him knowing it's what you are trying to do. Being just a friend is a hard thing to do when your are bursting at the seams to just grab him and hold him tight. However you have to disipline yourself and let him be the one to make those moves. Moving too fast could push him away.
It seems you are already good friends and in time it could become more but he is wanting things to move slowly from the sounds of it. To say that he will ever be your boyfriend, who knows? For now though you are gaining his trust, and affection as a friend. As the relationship matures it will evolve into something else. You will have an even better friendship or perhaps a great romance. Only time will tell and if two hearts find one another in the dark of night, they will live to tell it all in the light of day.
Don't forget to take your time and let him guide you. If you watch carefully the signs ,you will begin to see things more clearly and your own heart will make you react. Flirting will come naturally. Don't worry. Just be subtle(making it hard for him to detect or grasp) and take it slow.
*Just a note.....Good things come to those who wait!
Things are much better when you take the time to let things happen naturally without much effort at all. When it happens that way you know it was meant to be! Your emotions will give way to flirting and in time no time you will be able to do it with ease. Flirting is a part of who you are so just have fun and let the rest follow.You'll be fine.8-)
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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