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writes:If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust?I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon.He has told me that he will never take advantage of me, and that he'll only go as far as I initiate. He has never touched me anywhere I have not put his hand myself.Thank you very much, Merry Christmas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hello everyone,
NOO, I am not trying to tease him, he is just the first guy I've ever really let touch me, and I haven't ever been kissed before.
I think I will kiss him though now, I surely want to. It was just kind of that "first time" thing, it sort of transferred to the "first kiss" sort of.
But you think there's no harm in a kiss?
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reader, shania  + ♥, writes (13 December 2008):
 Kiss the guy for god's sake, put him out of his misery, otherwise your just teasing him.You either want him or you dont.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (13 December 2008):
 I think he has done well to contain himself in over a year!
I admire him for being a gentleman and whilst he gets hard there! that is normal for any guy when you hug and kiss the fact he is able to control that and tells you he won't initiate anything till you agreee proves he is a man of his word but no kissing either?
What are you trying to do to the poor guy?
Surely a kiss would do no harm?
Think it is time you made a decision on deciding if this is a relationship or just friends?
Gina
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reader, becca78 +, writes (13 December 2008):
It's arousal. He obviously finds you attractive. You've known him a long time and he's going at your pace, what's the problem? If it was just lust he'd probably have tried to push you a bit further by now!
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