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36-40,
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writes:hi, i have a boyfrnd that I have been dating 4 close to 4 yrs and the only problem is a muslim and am a christian and my parent dislike muslims,thou they have never met him cause am scared of introducing him.i like him so much but he hurt me in the past which I have forgiven, him for and I cheated too but he didn't know it was just a fling. the problem is that have so many christians that i can date presently and are asking me out but am confusd,cos i stil have feelings for my bloke.recently i started getting close to my close friend's elder brother and i am liking him,he is 32 and am 21, my bloke is 25. this new guy has a gal and i also told him am hooked but we just get along fine, nothing intimate yet just hugs and kisses, he told me to make sure i shouldn't let him get into my pants even if he is dying! What should I do dear cupid?
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 If your parents disapprove and RELIGION is the only reason.. I would suggest you to not go with your parents.. Choose the guy.. BUT.. I read that he cheated you.. That raises an eyebrow.. What if you go against your parents and then he ditches you again.? Think over it.. By the way what do you mean by not letting him get into your pants.? And who the hell is the person telling you that.? Why did you even consider his thought.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): You are 21 and you're a big girl, so you don't need to let your parents control who you choose! Their views are racist and that's wrong, it's great that you're open minded so don't let your family try and close it for you.
However this guy you are dating doesn't sound like a total saint as he hurt you before and you have cheated on him as well. Is your relationship totally stable? If it is then you two should stick together, but if it's not great then I would leave. But either way, be with who YOU want you to be with, not your parents =]
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