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writes:im 13 and my boyfriend is 16. we have only been going out for a week but we like eachother and have known eachother for a long time. Thing is people at school are calling him a pedophile even though hes not. we hav never had sex but we have kissed and snogged. we are really happy together but i can't be doing with the things people say, can anyone help me!? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxidkxx  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 yes,
you should do what most people are saying, as long as you love him and he loves you you shouldnt care what people think or say about you.
your taller hes shorter.. it shouldnt matter. your only 3 years apart thats not even that much.
maybe if he was like 40 and you were only 13 that would be hella weird. but yeah, i say go ahead and do what you want kiss him hug him.. whatever you guys do. dont pay attention to what other peole are saying, really its none of there biness. you do what you want. as long as hes treating you right. and you guys are happy
what do you are what other think right.
-dont listen to his frineds, there just mad because they have no life and there friend has a good girl like you.
-go up to your boyfriend right in frount of them and give him a really big hug and kiss.
-and last, just have fun. don't worry about what other poeple are saying.
:D
hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): look i dont think age matter it dosent matter wheter he is older or your older what matter is that there is love and he is good you'll noe when ur ready and will respect your oppinion that if he really likes you age is not a problem i have know woman who are 5 years older than ther huspand and u cant notice i have also know man who are 6 years older than his wife its called love dont jugde it just live it
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): This is wrong! does anyone remember being 16? what does a 16yr old share with a 13yr old? if my 13yr old sister was dating a 16 year old. I be very angry and question what type of person he was. I remember being 16, and looking at the 13yr olds, they were just stupid kids.
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reader, westlifer4evernotjust4xmas +, writes (11 December 2008):
this may sound perverted but i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 19. yes!!19!!! people at my school kept calling hima paedophile but he just told them that he wasn't going to dump me bcos of them so they might as well save their breath. they kept calling him it but when he stopped retaliating they gor bored and just stopped. i think you should just tell your school. pupils hate teachers. it's a fact. but they are there for a reason.right?
to look after you, to sort out your problems. they get paid for it!! make them work and sort it out because you can't keep going on like this. neither of you deserve this.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Yep, I can. A sixteen year old dating a thirteen year old is not morally wrong. Whoever said that is stupid. Don't pay attention to what stupid people say; or, even better, pay attention, so you can learn from their mistakes.
Pedophile is the person who is of full age and wants sex with underage children. That is not the word for a boy who falls in love with a girl.
Send them to hell! Why do you think the Devil is always so happy? Because he keeps sending people to hell. It feels nice, believe me.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (11 December 2008):
 This same thing happened with my boyfriend. He was 18 when we started dating and I was only 15. He got people calling him a pedophile and people were telling me that Im a slag for going out with a much older guy. (He is now 20 and Im turning 18 in 4 days).You should ignore these petty comments. None of them know about your private life and that should stay like that. You know what some teenagers are like these days, there crazed up about sex and etc and just follow what everyone else thinks. Ignore them. Tell them where to go. Tell them that youve got a boyfriend you care about and let them carry on being single and judgemental. Hug your bf, show affection, infront of these people, dont listen to what they say. But remember that having sex at your age is illegal in the UK and he could get in serious trouble if people found out that you did. Please be sensible. Goodluck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): If you like each other nothing should stand in your way however you must not have sex with him because it is illegal and he could face prison and be known as a pedophile everywhere you will prove people right but doing this. trust me
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