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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My gf and I have been going out for 9 months. We love each other very much, however, we unfortunately haven't kissed because my gf stills feels very uncomfortable with intimacy due to her last abusive relationship. She wants privacy, which i have given her although i do get lots of hugs and we watch movies on the couch and cuddle, and her and her family are amazed i haven'tbroken up with her...she tells me all the time she wants to kiss me shes just terrified of doing so...However, today, my mom who likes my gf very much found out we never have kissed and told me that this just means that we're supposedly friends and we're not in a real relationship...is mom telling the truth about my gf? Because if so, i'm going to be utterly heartbroken...
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reader, heartbroken . x  +, writes (20 December 2008):
dont worrie about it , if you love her and she loves you , you are going out with her
i didnt kiss my boyfriend for 7 months , i asked him about it and he said i just want it to be right ad i was is first kiss
we used to cuddle 24.7 , we couldnt stay apart from each other
i new he loved me , and i loved him
if she said she wants to kiss you , kiss her
your aloud to , dont feel holded back by this
it will be fine
hope it helps
heartbroken.x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): Just kiss her gently. Seriously just try and kiss her, see where it leads you. If she pushes you away, then talk to her about it and say, this is not a proper relationships. Lots of people would have said something by now!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 December 2008):
 Being utterly heartbroken is the best thing that can happen to you if it makes you face the truth.
Whatever the other boyfriend did, it's about time she moves on. Think what would happen if you didn't kiss her because of what a previous girlfriend did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): She needs to move on, she shouldn't let her last abusive relationship stop her from enjoying the love and intimacy from another. You have proven your loyalty very well so she should be able to trust you. The more she holds back the more and more difficult it will become for her and once you've done it she will probably change her mind! Show her this page because it is she who needs our help the most =]
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