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writes:I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and I really have fallen for him, but things have gone terribly wrong in out relationship. I am turning 18 soon and I really want to live life, but I don't feel I can do that with him. HE just keeps me solitary and I want to roam. He could never understand. I think I want to take that leap and end it with him. I love him, but I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, deja_vue +, writes (10 December 2008):
The hardest part is letting go and understanding what you really need to do. If you feel that breaking up with him is best for you you should go for it. It's a lot harder than it sounds but when you do it you will feel free. Yes, you love him but if you stay in this settled relationship how will you ever find out if you could fall in love with someone deeper. You have your whole life ahead of you and shouldnt worry about falling in loveust yet. If he is whats holding you back then be good to yourself and live your life after all your only 18.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (10 December 2008):
 you're only young once hun. tell him how you feel and tell him that there may be a chance that you can get back togehter in the future. dont let anyone hold you back from having a good time. if he is not willing to wait around for you then he may not be for you. you are at the age where you are suppose to explore new horizons and see what else is out there. sometimes that can be hard if you feel tied down. have fun and good luck with your whole situation.
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