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Why does he do this when he knows it upsets me?

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Question - (10 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *shleyyy writes:

I'm very insecure, I've always been, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he was like the popular funny kid at school, we both have a facebook, and literally 95 percent of his friends are girls, every day he's friends with like 3 new girls, and it bothers the heck out of me, I know he used to talk to a lot of girls in school (we didn't go to the same school) it just really bothers me he's friends with all these girls, I don't know what to do, or how to deal with this any more, I talked to him about it and always says "I'll delete everything" that's not what I want him to do, he keeps friend requesting all these girls and he KNOWS it bothers me. Why would he still do it if he knows it always gets me upset?

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A female reader, edsbabygirl United States +, writes (10 December 2008):

edsbabygirl agony auntSome guys have one thing on their mind (not that), but what they want. They just want to feel free and also I find that by pulling stunts like that, they think they are proving to themself that you care and that you know that her is a catch. My suggestion would be to not let it bother you too much because if you trust him, then it doesn't matter. But if he loves you, he wouldn't do anything bad anyway. Good luck hun.

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