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Archived questions from: 11 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He shows up everywhere--is he a stalker or is it fated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Hello guys, just a quick question. For about three months i have been bumping into this man. They don't appear to be usual meetings either. First he nearly knocked me down, which obviously set me off noticing him. It was my fault of course, cos i ...

She's 13--does the age difference matter?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - ok.. so this girl i like is 13 and im 16 does age really matter?...

She puts on porn when I'm around--what is she saying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - when i hangout with this girl she always puts on porn or naked pics. and i just laugh about it. is she trying to tell me something?...

He dates younger girls--is that okay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Is it bad for a 24/25 yr old male to be dating an 18 yr old female? i was on bebo and saw a comment on a guy i likes page and it said "ahaha you only date girls who were born in the 1990's"? so is it bad? does it make the "24" yr old seem desperate ...

How do I know what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (?) - I met this chap 7 years ago at Uni. He helped me with my work and asked me out repeatedly which I refused but made clear I liked him as a friend and kept my space and dedication to my studies. We drifted apart but always kept in touch via ...

I'm meeting an online contact for a first date--any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - Okay so I asked this girl out and we've never actually spoken words to eachother. I asked her out and she said yes. On Friday we're going into town...I was thinking coffee and a movie but I need some advice! ...

Other women would have left, should i? or am I over reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - ok i really need help! frist off i know i might be over reacting abit but i really am stressing out ok here goes my fiance and i live together right a two bedroom one bath house im the only one who cleans as i dont work at the moment a...

What would you think of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - If you found a message to your husband saying "Last time you came over in the middle of sex you said..." and "if you can make the 4th that would be great. Better not come back to mine, we shouldn't have sex again. The pain wasn't worth the...

What shall I say if I see this lad again soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - i have been on about this lad before. Anyway before i was saying 'what shall i say to him if i see him again?' I havn't seen him yet, but i might in th middle of september. Do you think i should keep on crushing on him incase he does like me bac...

I haven't seen my boyfriend all summer. Should I run over and kiss him when I see him? I'm 12 years old by the way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 12 years old, and I'm going into 7th grade soon. The thing is, I haven't seen my boyfriend ALL summer. And I miss him terribly. I have a slight chance of seeing him when he gets back, but I dunno if I will. I was wonderng, what should I when...

How can I show more different and passionate affection towards my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - i love my boyfriend and i love showing affection to him. but i want to show him some affection that i never shown him before. i hold his hand, kiss him, kiss his cheek, lips, and rub his leg. but i want to do something different. we go to a movi...

This is doing my head in, I want him back, but I don't know how.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - i started seein an ex a couple of months ago. We were gettin on really well althogh he made it clear from the start that he didnt want anything heavy and committed, as he had just come out of a relationship. But naturally as time passed, I wanted ...

Am I allowed to masterbate, even when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - I feel horny all the time but i have a boyfriend am i supposed to use him for my sexual pleasure? Or do people in relationships masterbate too? Im only 15 btw...

Is it possible to get pregnant, after having sex on the first day of my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - can i become pregnant after havin sex on the first day of my period,...

Does the fact that he is six years older than I am, make a big difference, we argue all the time, he is stubborn and bossy, can this change or is the relationship hopeless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old and my boyfriend is 26 years old. We have arguements on every thing possible. He tries to make things more complicated rather than having a simple discussion on mistakes or quarrels. My question is whether a huge age difference ...

He wants kids, I want a career, we are very much in love but at the moment, want different things, should I stick by him or do my own thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently decided to end things cos he is ready to have kids and i want a career.hes 40 and im 20 but thats the only problem with our age gap that we are wanting different things in life at the moment.apart from that we are so ...

My boyfriend has an "adult friend finder" account on the internet, we are in a sexless relationship, what can I do to change all of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Due to joint internet access i have discovered my boyfriend has an 'adult friendfinder' account. He is listed as single and describes his manhood too. He has written looking for online fun.... I know he chats as he doesnt come to bed until very l...

I broke up with my girlfriend, because she cheated on me, after a year or so, we got back together, because she said she has changed, I can't trust her completely, how do I protect myself for getting hurt again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - I recently got back with my long term girlfriend who I broke up with over a year ago. After breaking up with her boyfriend that she had for a year, she admitted having feelings for me once again, which led to us seeing each other and me breaking up ...

I really love this girl, but we have trust issues and we argue all the time, should I break up with her, and if so, how do I do it without breaking her heart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - ive been with a girl 8 months and i really love the girl but we have no trust in our relationship and argue all the time ..... i dont think i can make this relationship work .... do you think i should give up and leave her ? and if so how do i let ...

I have a good friend, who I want to keep as a good friend, but he is showing signs of affection, that I do not want to return, how do I get this across to him that I just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Well, Theres this guy1 and he has a girlfriend, and i have a boyfriend, and i love this boy to bits we been together nerle 3 months, and i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, but guy1 is breaking up with his girlfriend, and we have so muc...

My partner and I enjoyed having sex using the missionary position, now she cannot be as accomodating physically, has anyone else experienced this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (?) - I've been with my partner for 13 years. When we went missionary she could spread her legs really wide and it was nice for me. Now she can't any more and we use other positions. I miss that. Has anyone experienced the same thing?...

I took the advice of someone and made a move on a woman I like very much, she said she only wants to be friends, how do I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - Over the past 2 weeks I have really fallen for someone who works down my local. I spent a couple of hours talking to her and drinking with her Saturday night after her shift, and I really thought she felt the same about me. The owner of the pub told ...

I like this guy who has a girlfriend, who I had a conversation with, this guy has now blocked me from his myspace page, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - theres this boy that i like and i foun out that he has a girlfriend ive talked to his girlfriend on the phone and i told her whats been goin on now he blocced me from his myspace wat does that mean??...

I had sex with two men on the same day, became pregnant, lost the baby, my boyfriend, one of the two men, does not knpw I cheated, should I confess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Ok so a week ago I had a miscarriage, and well depression is on my side, actually I've been depressed ever since I found out I was prego. Im 18 years old and I just graduated high school, and I now go to uc davis, going into the dentist field. So ...

What does he mean by all this stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - hey i know a guy from a year n we are good freinds n we r 18 yr olds n our families know each other very well so recently i went to his house just for a visit n he was alone at home first he asked me for a couple dance he taught a few steps then we ...

My best friend and her ex broke up two weeks ago. I always liked him. Should I go for it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - hi i am in love. he is my best friends old boyfriend. they borke up two weeks ago. i always liked him but now hes available i really want him. should i go for it? how can i tell if he is interested? HELP !...

How soon should I call her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - I met this girl at a meeting for a reality tv show for models. One of the models came over to me and sat next to me and we really hit it off. she kept grabbing my hand and laughing at all my jokes. After she posed for some pictures I asked her if ...

How should I tell my mom I'm bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - What do if my mom finds out im bisexual, she absolutely hates people who arent straight and we already have a rocky relationship? shes been suspicious of late, so should i just tell her and hope for the best? She had a hard time accepting that i'm...

Does anyone have any advice on how to win a very stubborn guy over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - theres a guy i like..but at the moment all we seem to do is argue. he calls me up when he drunk and gets other girls to speak to me! (don't ask why!!) and then is really rude when i do speak to him. its like hes constantly trying to make me jealous. ...

Problems with my sex life have completely destroyed my self-confidence!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

11 August 2008 (M) - hi im not really sure if this is the right place to be asking this im 26 years old i have never been one for sleeping around but in my last sexual relationship a couple of years ago i couldnt get an erection i really liked this girl through my own ...

I'm worried if I tell him exactly how I feel, and he doesn't feel the same, that I'll lose him as a friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

11 August 2008 (F) - Me and this guy started having a relationship but we ended it because I couldn't see him very often. We've been friends ever since, but a year on I am completely besotted with him, so much that i'm pretty sure I love him, strong as the word is. Pr...