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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family a...

I'll never be able to have her out of my life, but to date her would be too inappropriate. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - im 17, there's a friend of mine who's 14 and she admitted she liked me, i like her too, but i keep lying to her and say, dont, because i know it would never work, and i would feel like i'm taking advantage of her and it would be too innapropriate. ...

Stuck between a career or my lover: Do I give him up or go to school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Alrightyz, even if you don't answer, thank you for reading. But i am hoplessly tore between the most horrible decision ever. Ever since i was a little girl i've planned to move to california right after high school to get my degree in aquatic ...

As a result of his divorce he is losing his home. He has become distant towards me, I'm worried not knowing if it is the stress or his being interested in someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Meet this guy last year. We both were newly single and dating other people. After three months we decided to only date each other. We were together every night. He text me and couldnt wait until I would get to his house at night. He told me ...

If I give him hand relief once will he insist that I do it all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Hi i think me and my boyfriend mite be getting close to some heavy petting, like handjobs. the only thing i'm scared of is, once i give him a handjob, will it just be expected to be done frequently after that??...

I would like to ask her out, is it too soon after her recent split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - I am 18, and never had a real girlfriend, however, Ive have secretly fancied my step couson.(no blood relation) When we first met we were like two peas in a pod but me being me i was too shy to take it any further. quite a while after she got a ...

He flirts with me and tells me he wants to be with me but when I say lets be together he says nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - please help!recently i started talking to my very first boyfriend.im talkin high school sweetheart.the thing is i still have very strong feelings for him.i told him but he didnt realy say much.he flirts with me and tells me he wants to be with me ...

Will dwarfism and lack of confidence make me less appealing to boys in middle school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - So, I know I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'm going into middle school. Now, I've heard this is where, some boys actually FINALLY like girls. And we're being combined with another school. So MORE BOYS!! Yay. But I have a disease, with dwarfism, ...

I don't know who to trust or believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 August 2008 (?) - hi! me and my guy both are schooling but not in the same one. we came in touch through a common friend of ours. we have feelings towards each for the last three months and i have not known him for more than even a month before dating him. eve...

I want someone I know I can't have...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Well i guess i'm writing here for advice on how to get over someone i haven't even been out with... I've been good friends with a guy i work with for nearly 3 years...i'd always assumed we were friends but recently through one reason or anothe...

Is it ok to date your ex bf's acquaintance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Is it ok to date your ex bf's acquaintance? My ex bf broke up with me about 5 months ago. Recently this guy who is an acquaintance of my ex asked me out on a date. I knew this guy before I went out with my ex but we were never really friends o...

My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him a...

She says I'm a nice guy and would hate to hurt me. Is it wrong to still have feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - Hi, i'll try and make this as brief as possible. I'm 21 and have never been in a real relationship. Last year i found out a friend from work liked me, which was a real suprise becus i have always liked her, but thought she was out of my league to ...

I can't trust him! I'm convinced he goes out with girls when he's with his friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - My long distance bf went out with his friend tonight and had not called me yet. His guy friend is spending the weekend over at his place; they went out at 9 pm at night and it is 4:00 am and he has not called me. I called hime, but didn't answer. ...

I don't want to tell him I have feelings and risk making a fool of myself and ruining our friendship. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Btw, I'm only writing anonymous, because I don't want anyone from school to see this. Obviously, there is this guy i like. I've been friends with him for almost a year. I've only recently started to actually realise i have feelings for him....

Preteen girl troubles

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm twelve years old. Six months ago I saw one most beatiful and intelligent girls on earth. She is(in my opinion) out of my league. It got to the point that I paid some of my friends to convince her that I was a good choice for her. During ...

What do people think about 3rd cousins dating or sleeping together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - I have been talking to my third cousin who lives in a different state. He is coming to my state here in a week or so and we have been talking about spending time together and maybe going on some dates when he is here and who knows what else... My ...

I'm a very insecure man and I lied to her about really stupid stuff. Do I have a chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - I have worked with this woman for two years. We finally met in April and immediatly started to date. I am a very, very insecure man and I lied about some really stupid stuff. She found out one by one (there were three) and each time I told here ...

My girlfriend is sending me mixed signals, and I don't know if she wants sex or not, and I don't want to pressure her, please give me some advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - Hey Dear Cupid I have been going out with this girl for 2 months and she makes me go crazy for her. I love this girl. Lately I have been wanting sex... I don't know what to do because we would be making out and she just takes her top off and bra ...

My boyfriend hangs out with MY best friend more than me! Is this a big deal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. we were close before that so we're even closer now. but he hangs out with MY best friend (shes a girl) more than me. and it really bothers me. they live close to eachother but when they hang ...

Is he controlling or is this just how guys are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend gets mad at me for something, whether it was something I said or the way I said it (tone wise) He gets really upset with me. He doesnt want me around him, wont talk to me if I try talking to him and goes to the point of talking ...

Do I ride out the storm of this sexless relationship or do I finish it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - ok, I have been in the same relationship for nearly 10 years and have been completely faithful throughout. My problem is, my partner and i have not had sex for nearly 6 months she is under a lot of pressure from work and with ill parents. I ...

Should I tell him I want to have a relationship and risk scaring him off? I want to know where I stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - I am casually seeing a man who I have developed strong feelings for. Because we began as friends, rather than officially dating, I'm confused as to where I stand with him. He has been over to my house a few times, and we've flirted, kissed and ...

My new guy babysits his ex's cat! Are they too close or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - I have started dating this guy and its been going great. He seems very interested in me, but the problem is he is still very close with his ex. He has told me its totally over but she is his first love. He is always on her facebook, shes on the top ...

I can't get deep enough into his life to see where I stand! How can I get some real answers here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and all of a sudden i feel insecure about our relationship. It's all because it's hard to know what he is doing on a day to day basis-not 24.7. but anything. We live together and he never tells me ...

Respect: Is there hope for improving our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Why does he treat me badly and what can be done to improve our relationship? My boyfriend of over 2 years is treating me unkindly. He has a very short temper with me, calls me bad names -jokingly he sais- and does not seem to trust me. I have told ...

How do I get a withdrawn man to open up to me in a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year in a long distance relationship. I am finding it a real struggle lately, and am not sure where I stand with him. He was open with me from the beginning and told me that he finds things difficult ...

I have new feelings lurking inside me for my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - I have just started a relationship with this guy and we have been dating for about a month. on the second day that we were dating i met his best friend "nick". as soon as i laid eyes on him i knew i was in trouble. i felt this immediate connection ...

He cheats and I don't trust him but should we get back together? Will I be hurt again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - me and my ex have been texting and meeting for about a year and only recently we've got together, we were together a week then broke up, i finished it because we argue way to much and its complicated between us. i havent seen or thought of him since ...

Should I tell him my feelings before he becomes famous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - i have had a crush on this boy for about a few months i havent been able to do anything or tell him how i feel because i have been busy.i recently found out he is on a very popular singing show and has got through to the "boot camp stage".i dont ...