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writes:I just recently moved to a new area and found someone who seemed perfect. He was a total Prince charming, had only kissed a girl on the cheek, and was so shy and sweet. We have some things in common like creativness and type of music ect. Well I asked him to kiss me and he thought that we were now boyfriend and girlfriend. He came over everyday and we had so much fun together, he wrote me letters and gave me flowers. So I decided to break up with my boyfriend down state since our relationship was based on nothing but sex and he hadnt called me or seen me all summer. Well he broke up with me and said that he didnt have time for a girlfriend(which was a lie), then he said he wasn't ready for a girlfriend, I can understand that but there is only 40 people in the graduating class here and he hasnt had a gf in 2 years (so it sint like there could be anyone else he's interested in). Then talking to his friend he said that this kid liked his free time and he thought I was weird... He said though that we had a chance later on. I feel like I gave up everything for this kid. Now hes purposly ignoring me.I dont know anyone else around here... Should I start ignoring him? Do start looking for someone else even though he said we still had a chance? Why would he break up with me? I didnt think i was that weird...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): (original question asker) Well I had the choice to either stay in my hometown or stay with my mom and extermly abusive boyfriend, 12 hours away from family and friends. He was the one who asked me if i would ever break his heart and we both agreed we wouldnt and he told me he would make it worth it if I stayed. I decided to stay, not only for him but I would get $18,000 a year for 4 years for college I can onl get it if I live under the same address and my moms husband who for the last 2 years has tryed his hardest to make my life hell. I was free from him and I gave it up for a boy and college money(I am the dumbest person in the world) And because if I stayed where I did live I would live at my grandmas with my drunk dad out back in a camper watching him slowly kill himself. They say taking the hard road in the long run might be easier but which one is the hard road? Its too late now to go back. Yeah when he broke up with me he said that it was him not me and that I was perfect. The hardest part is that I dont know anybody other than him and his friends, but he wants me to stay away(he wouldnt say that though)
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reader, ItsEmma +, writes (31 August 2008):
 Of course you're not weird. He's the weird one!
[But before I give my two cents, I just have to say... when you said you gave up everything for him (I might not know the whole story), but you said you only gave up a relationship that was based on nothing but sex? How can that be everything?]
He just seems like a typical High School boy. He acts one way when his friends aren't looking, and another way when he's with them. I wouldn't give him the time of day, if it were me. If he's purposly ignoring you, and tells his friends that you're weird, you should never give him another chance. Why would you date someone who thinks you're weird?
Best of luck!
~Emma
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