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*qua
writes:i have got this really weird problem...i have a boyfriend(my classmate in coll) and we've been together for last 18 months.i feel he really loves me but when we initially started out he had this habit of complimenting other girls and usually commenting on me which i dint like.He infact also dedicated a poem to another girl which he said he has writtern for me.Many of my classmates even said that he is a flirt but i stayed with him since i love him.I warned him not to repeat it and he dint as per my wish.But i m not able to forget the things he did and i can stand that he might have liked anyone else other than me.wats my problem???m i insecure or its problem with my borfriend??please help!!!
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reader, aqua +, writes (31 August 2008):
aqua is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot for replying...i hope to get more suggestions from you guys...love ya all :)
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (31 August 2008):
hiyah, its ok for us to be insecure of our bfs espically the flirty ones! Although yours seems like a good one, you asked him to stop and he did clearly shows he likes you obviously the past doesnt just go away, its always there but it should be the future you are focusing on but maybe his actions in the past are to much for you to handle and if that is the case you should end the relationship now because neither of you can change whats happened. you say youve stayed with him cause you love him but if this is getting in the way of your current relationship there is no soution but to finish it... sorry it sounds so harsh and blunt.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Certainly inappreopriate behaviour. However if you told him not to do it anyway and he doesn't done it again then really what more can you expect him to do? Do you think maybe you don't trust him?
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reader, hhh  +, writes (31 August 2008):
Hey, its normal in men and its better for you to leave him. see, he might be mad of you and done many things to please you in the beginning to get you, but now he is tired of you and somehow wants to get rid of you and get someone else..Most of the men like who is smart looking,taking too much with girls to get attention to themselves, who is always sympathetic only towards girls, show off, bluff a lot ....plzz you all woman try to stay away from these guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): It's your boyfriend, what he's been doing is highly inapropriate, it sounds like he's not mature enough for a relationship. I'd talk to him about it and if he keeps doing it then I'd sugest that you leave before you get really hurt.
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